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5:13 PM
This looks like you stumbled across a specific post... it would be helpful it you could link to it :) — Tinkeringbell ♦ 50 secs ago
#3290 Tinkeringbell (20683 rep) | Q: Maximum Up-Voted Answer (score: 1) | posted 3 minutes ago by DDD (458 rep) | Toxicity 0.0 | edited 43 seconds ago by DDD (458 rep)
@Tinkeringbell I think DDD is talking about this one: interpersonal.stackexchange.com/a/19036/21067Noon 51 secs ago
#3290 Noon (2877 rep) | Q: Maximum Up-Voted Answer (score: 1) | posted 4 minutes ago by DDD (458 rep) | Toxicity 0.0 | edited 1 minutes ago by DDD (458 rep)
 
Welcome to the site! Please take a minute to read over How do I write a good answer?. I'm not sure how this answers OP's question, and it's a bit unclear - what is "gold times"? What is the purpose of the picture? Your last sentence seems to be just summarizing this earlier answer, if you feel it's different can you elaborate on that and why you think that is the best course of action for OP? — Em C ♦ 1 min ago
#19102 Em C | A: How do I deal with people that when I ask them something, they tell to others what you told them? (score: 0) | posted 15 minutes ago by TurqSpl (109 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
Matched regex(es) ["chatty"]
 
5:31 PM
@Tinkeringbell, updated the question again. (added link) — DDD 41 secs ago
#3290 DDD (458 rep) | Q: Maximum Up-Voted Answer (score: 0) | posted 21 minutes ago by DDD (458 rep) | Toxicity 0.0 | edited 6 minutes ago by DDD (458 rep)
 
Hi Vlastimil. You're still not answering how DDD should go about getting forgiveness for forgetting the birthday. It's fine that you think there's loads of reasons why it shouldn't be done, but you're not helping DDD reach their goal of getting forgiveness. Your answer is still answering 'Should I apologize' instead of 'How can I convince my friend to forgive me'. — Tinkeringbell ♦ 1 min ago
#19063 Tinkeringbell | A: I forgot my friend's birthday, how can I convince him to forgive me? (score: 0) | posted 33 hours ago by Vlastimil (123 rep) | edited 29 hours ago by Vlastimil (123 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
Matched regex(es) ["chatty-weak"]
This may help OP understand their classmate's reaction, but I'm not sure it really answers their question about how to deal with it. Could you add a section to directly address that? — Em C ♦ 2 mins ago
#19096 Em C | A: How do I deal with people that when I ask them something, they tell to others what you told them? (score: 1) | posted 8 hours ago by alephzero (157 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
 
Thanks for immediate answer and support. :-) — DDD 1 min ago
#3291 DDD (458 rep) | A: Maximum Up-Voted Answer (score: 2) | posted 6 minutes ago by Tinkeringbell (20683 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
 
5:51 PM
Hi eric! Thank you for showing an interest in writing answers on Interpersonal Skills and sharing your expertise. Please take a moment to look at our meta post on how to write good answers. A single line with 'you could try this' sadly isn't really an answer here. Can you explain why and how this answers the question about 'what is the etiquette for smalltalk'? What part of this is etiquette? What part of this is smalltalk? — Tinkeringbell ♦ 2 mins ago
#19103 Tinkeringbell | A: What is the etiquette for smalltalk in a workplace when the context and person is always the same? (score: -1) | posted 36 minutes ago by eric (1 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
Matched regex(es) ["chatty"]
 
6:12 PM
@ThorbjørnRavnAndersen It essentially means that "if you weren't given something, don't try to take it anyway", with the implication that trying to take something that wasn't given to you in the first place will bring you trouble — kumikan 1 min ago
#8435 kumikan | A: How can I get someone to stop paying for my meal? (score: 12) | posted 283 days ago by michi (3134 rep) | Toxicity 0 | Comment on inactive post | tps/fps: 0/0
Or a phrase "at least in english" that would be common among friends that doesn't usually come off as weird "Can I try some of that?". — Shufflepants 7 secs ago
#19080 Shufflepants | A: How do I deal with people that when I ask them something, they tell to others what you told them? (score: 37) | posted 26 hours ago by BlackThorn (2913 rep) | edited 18 hours ago by BlackThorn (2913 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
Not exactly relevant since I'm not from Romania, but if some one I wasn't dating asked if they could "have the rest of my food", I'd wonder if they were homeless or so poor that they don't get enough to eat at home. And unless they were a really good friend, I'd consider it rude. — Shufflepants 2 mins ago
#19064 Shufflepants | Q: How do I deal with people that when I ask them something, they tell to others what you told them? (score: 10) | posted 34 hours ago by Alex A (193 rep) | edited 3 hours ago by Em C (8675 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
 
6:28 PM
I'm voting to close this question as off-topic because this is a question that can only be answered by the event organizers. — apaul 47 secs ago
#19105 apaul | Q: If a group such as Women in STEM hosts an interview event, am I, as a man, allowed/invited to go? (score: 0) | posted 8 minutes ago by Prime624 (1 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
@Shufflepants How can you have such wonders? Anyone can figure out wether they are homeless or not, poor or not poor. In my class, we used to share our foods and drinks. Big deal! That doesn’t mean, some of us are poor or homeless! We are only treating as brothers and sisters. — Alex A 37 secs ago
#19064 Alex A | Q: How do I deal with people that when I ask them something, they tell to others what you told them? (score: 10) | posted 34 hours ago by Alex A (193 rep) | edited 4 hours ago by Em C (8675 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
 
6:40 PM
Although questions like this aren't related to one's personal Interpersonal Skills and off topic on this site, here's a question from academa.stackexchange whose answers may be helpful to you: academia.stackexchange.com/q/99752/87544. — Tinkeringbell ♦ 38 secs ago
#19105 Tinkeringbell | Q: If a group such as Women in STEM hosts an interview event, am I, as a man, allowed/invited to go? (score: -2) | posted 20 minutes ago by Prime624 (2 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
 
@thesecretmaster looks like everyone's getting a toxicity of 0...I'm not sure how to debug this though. Toxicity is set and stored here and then recalled from the ActiveRecord here. Am I missing something obvious?
Oh wait. Isn't it supposed to be a float? So by casting to int it's just always rounding down to 0?
 
Fantasising about the relationships she is or isn’t having is better than compulsively lying about other matters. Does she lie about anything else? It’s sounding quite harmless to me. You know, weird in a sweet way? — Matthew E Cornish 1 min ago
#19104 Matthew E Cornish | Q: How to confront a friend who is a pathological liar (score: 1) | posted 1 hours ago by janee (6 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
can you put your country name? — DDD 1 min ago
#19104 DDD | Q: How to confront a friend who is a pathological liar (score: 1) | posted 1 hours ago by janee (6 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
Does she like her own appreciation after lying about anything? — DDD 1 min ago
#19104 DDD | Q: How to confront a friend who is a pathological liar (score: 1) | posted 1 hours ago by janee (6 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
All these down votes without comments lol — SuperStew 34 secs ago
#19106 SuperStew | A: If a group such as Women in STEM hosts an interview event, am I, as a man, allowed/invited to go? (score: -3) | posted 29 minutes ago by SuperStew (179 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
Please note that our community policy actively discourages commenting to explain downvotes if the downvotes are because of disagreement with the answer. So my guess is people disagree with your answer and are (rightly) not commenting. — scohe001 1 min ago
#19106 scohe001 | A: If a group such as Women in STEM hosts an interview event, am I, as a man, allowed/invited to go? (score: -4) | posted 34 minutes ago by SuperStew (177 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
Matched regex(es) ["chatty"]
I won't add an answer to an on-hold question (though if the hold is removed I may convert this to an answer), but the answer here is to contact the group that has organized the event and ask them. No one else will have the requisite information on what the intention of the event is, or if it would be an issue for you to attend. — Upper_Case 1 min ago
#19105 Upper_Case | Q: If a group such as Women in STEM hosts an interview event, am I, as a man, allowed/invited to go? (score: -3) | posted 47 minutes ago by Prime624 (1 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
Matched regex(es) ["possible-aic"]
Just how much have you told them that's not true? There's a big difference between explaining that they don't know your real name and you're not the youngest of 15 siblings compared to more personal things like your likes/dislikes and your true personality. — scohe001 1 min ago
#19107 scohe001 | Q: How to explain to someone that I'm not who I said I was? (score: 0) | posted 10 minutes ago by threesmallchildreninanovercoat (1 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
Matched regex(es) ["possible-aic"]
Have you taken any kind of benefit from your fake identity? — DDD 22 secs ago
#19107 DDD | Q: How to explain to someone that I'm not who I said I was? (score: 0) | posted 11 minutes ago by threesmallchildreninanovercoat (1 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
@scohe001 That seems to defeat the whole point. Without some discussion, they're just arbitrary votes, of no use to me or OP — SuperStew 34 secs ago
#19106 SuperStew | A: If a group such as Women in STEM hosts an interview event, am I, as a man, allowed/invited to go? (score: -4) | posted 46 minutes ago by SuperStew (177 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
Likes/dislikes and personality are all largely the same. I'm a bit more extroverted since there is not (supposed to be) as much commitment. So it mostly name, job, education, general life history. All the stuff you talk about when you meet someone. "Who are you" "Where are you from" "What do you do" "Where did you go to school". That sort of stuff. — threesmallchildreninanovercoat 13 secs ago
#19107 threesmallchildreninanovercoat | Q: How to explain to someone that I'm not who I said I was? (score: 0) | posted 12 minutes ago by threesmallchildreninanovercoat (1 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
Though the context is not exactly the same, the most upvoted answer here interpersonal.stackexchange.com/questions/15934/… probably contains solid advice. — Bryan Krause 1 min ago
#19107 Bryan Krause | Q: How to explain to someone that I'm not who I said I was? (score: 0) | posted 12 minutes ago by threesmallchildreninanovercoat (1 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
Matched regex(es) ["chatty"]
If you disagree with the policy, I'd encourage you to write a meta post or take it to our chat. Comments aren't the best place to discuss site policy ;) — scohe001 just now
#19106 scohe001 | A: If a group such as Women in STEM hosts an interview event, am I, as a man, allowed/invited to go? (score: -4) | posted 49 minutes ago by SuperStew (177 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
I know that information seems trivial, but it is the foundation of friendships. And breaking the foundation apart seems like a recipe for disaster. — threesmallchildreninanovercoat 44 secs ago
#19107 threesmallchildreninanovercoat | Q: How to explain to someone that I'm not who I said I was? (score: 0) | posted 15 minutes ago by threesmallchildreninanovercoat (1 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
Hi, I'm in Canada. — janee 24 secs ago
#19104 janee | Q: How to confront a friend who is a pathological liar (score: 1) | posted 1 hours ago by janee (6 rep) | edited 17 minutes ago by DDD (460 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
Matched regex(es) ["short-comment"]
You can go, but you won't be the candidate they are looking for. — Jamie Clinton just now
#19105 Jamie Clinton | Q: If a group such as Women in STEM hosts an interview event, am I, as a man, allowed/invited to go? (score: -3) | posted 1 hours ago by Prime624 (1 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
I apologize if I made it sound like the information was trivial. If it makes you feel this way then clearly it's not. I was trying to understand the level of falsehoods you've given while keeping it lighthearted and I'm sorry if I was demeaning to your problem by doing so as that was definitely not my intention. — scohe001 1 min ago
#19107 scohe001 | Q: How to explain to someone that I'm not who I said I was? (score: 0) | posted 19 minutes ago by threesmallchildreninanovercoat (1 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
Not at all. It was merely the act of quantifying it that makes seem like "Oh, that nothing. It shouldn't be a problem" at first glance. You're good. — threesmallchildreninanovercoat 38 secs ago
#19107 threesmallchildreninanovercoat | Q: How to explain to someone that I'm not who I said I was? (score: 0) | posted 20 minutes ago by threesmallchildreninanovercoat (1 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
 
7:28 PM
Yes, they are reading only first or second answer, and if any answer has not been accepted by OP then by default maximum up-voted answer bumped up and getting more up-votes. — DDD 1 min ago
#3292 DDD (458 rep) | A: Maximum Up-Voted Answer (score: 0) | posted 5 minutes ago by Bryan Krause (1071 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
 
@AlexA Note that I'm talking specifically if they asked to "have the rest of my food". This implies they want it out of hunger. If they asked "Can I try a bite of that?", it'd be a completely different story. — Shufflepants 53 secs ago
#19064 Shufflepants | Q: How do I deal with people that when I ask them something, they tell to others what you told them? (score: 10) | posted 35 hours ago by Alex A (195 rep) | edited 5 hours ago by Em C (8674 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
@AlexA And there's probably just some cultural differences here. I'm sure some american's share food with their friends, but I try to avoid other people's germs and generally wouldn't eat something some one has already taken a bite from if I'm not already swapping spit with them in other matters. — Shufflepants 1 min ago
#19064 Shufflepants | Q: How do I deal with people that when I ask them something, they tell to others what you told them? (score: 10) | posted 35 hours ago by Alex A (195 rep) | edited 5 hours ago by Em C (8674 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
I edited it, hopefully it's up to your standards — zanahorias 2 mins ago
#19094 zanahorias | A: How do I tell my my parents I want to switch schools from their alma mater to a new one? (score: -1) | posted 14 hours ago by zanahorias (1598 rep) | edited 2 minutes ago by zanahorias (1598 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
@scohe001 i suspect i already know why, but i'll do that — SuperStew 1 min ago
#19106 SuperStew | A: If a group such as Women in STEM hosts an interview event, am I, as a man, allowed/invited to go? (score: -4) | posted 1 hours ago by SuperStew (177 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
Matched regex(es) ["chatty-weak"]
 
7:45 PM
This has been discussed at great length, see commentsapaul 35 secs ago
#3293 apaul (46735 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: 0) | posted 13 minutes ago by SuperStew (177 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
@apaul not enough apparently.... but that link pulls up 0 tagged questions — SuperStew 51 secs ago
#3293 SuperStew (177 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: 0) | posted 14 minutes ago by SuperStew (177 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
Tryed to use magig link formatting, forgot those go to theain site, see edited comment. — apaul 40 secs ago
#3293 apaul (46735 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: 0) | posted 15 minutes ago by SuperStew (177 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
Long story short... We discourage those comments because they were sparking too much argument and debate. We'd rather people write a competing answer instead of a "you're wrong because..." type comment. — apaul 9 secs ago
#3293 apaul (46735 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -1) | posted 18 minutes ago by SuperStew (177 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
Note that if a downvoter thinks the question is salvageable (they downvoted for something like tone), comments with clear constructive criticism are encouraged! Something like "The tone is a little to XYZ in paragraphs 2-5. Can you clean that up?" is a perfectly good comment. — scohe001 1 min ago
#3293 scohe001 (8718 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -1) | posted 18 minutes ago by SuperStew (177 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
@scohe001 thats good, but where are the "I disagree with part X because Y" copmments — SuperStew 41 secs ago
#3293 SuperStew (177 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -1) | posted 19 minutes ago by SuperStew (177 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
Really the only time to downvote without commenting would be if the downvoter thinks the answer isn't salvageable (likely because of poor quality or they simply disagree with the premise). In those cases what would a comment accomplish? — scohe001 1 min ago
#3293 scohe001 (8718 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -1) | posted 19 minutes ago by SuperStew (177 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
#3293 Em C (8674 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -1) | posted 20 minutes ago by SuperStew (177 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
@apaul ....... isn't that the whole point? That's what I don't get. That should be encouraged, even if it gets moved to chat, it's still there. — SuperStew 52 secs ago
#3293 SuperStew (177 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -1) | posted 20 minutes ago by SuperStew (177 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
@EmC So basically it's because comments cause "discussion" rather than "question and answer"? Don't comments get moved to a chat when they start to pile up on an answer? — SuperStew 1 min ago
#3293 SuperStew (177 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -1) | posted 25 minutes ago by SuperStew (177 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
@apaul “Long story short... We discourage those comments because they were sparking too much argument and debate.” Between my previous question and now this I can tell you straight out… The community’s overzealousness in cleaning up these “Please explain downvote.” comments is actually causing more frustration than anything else. I posted a similar exasperation towards this “policy” here. It’s honestly creepy to see questions and answers with utterly no comments on this Stack Exchange. I feel it’s honestly stupid. — JakeGould 1 min ago
#3293 JakeGould (858 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -2) | posted 32 minutes ago by SuperStew (185 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
 
8:05 PM
OP is bit more than use middle name. — paparazzo 6 secs ago
#19108 paparazzo | A: How to explain to someone that I'm not who I said I was? (score: 1) | posted 27 minutes ago by scohe001 (8729 rep) | edited 21 minutes ago by scohe001 (8729 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
Matched regex(es) ["short-comment"]
 
@JakeGould Before the crack down things were... Much more stupid... Nearly every post had a long back and forth argument beneath it. A lot of time was wasted, and a lot of people stopped contributing, because they got sick of it. — apaul 12 secs ago
#3293 apaul (46746 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -2) | posted 35 minutes ago by SuperStew (185 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
 
That is going to be hard for people to accept. You lied on many levels. Even if they accept they are going to have trouble knowing if the real you is real. They are going to question why you would do such a thing. — paparazzo 2 mins ago
#19107 paparazzo | Q: How to explain to someone that I'm not who I said I was? (score: 2) | posted 1 hours ago by threesmallchildreninanovercoat (11 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
 
@SuperStew FWIW, I upvoted your question. I am in agreement with all your frustrations here. — JakeGould 47 secs ago
#3293 JakeGould (858 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -2) | posted 44 minutes ago by SuperStew (185 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
@apaul I don’t believe this “scorched Earth” policy is a great solution. Sorry to use language, but it really makes the moderators of this community that is ironically focused on interpersonal skills seem to be bone-headed putzes. Anyway, now that I know this expect my participation in this “community” to be little to non-existent… Unless of course I get a killer question or answers so I can score rep! Why else participate here then? — JakeGould 1 min ago
#3293 JakeGould (858 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -2) | posted 44 minutes ago by SuperStew (185 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
 
That is a lot of time even if it is with a guy friend. — paparazzo 47 secs ago
#16441 paparazzo | Q: How to convince my wife that my best friend and I are just friends? (score: 96) | posted 85 days ago by Teri0 (534 rep) | edited 77 days ago by HDE 226868 (7018 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
This is a tough one. I would try and get to open up about why she lies. But I don't have enough for an answer. — paparazzo 22 secs ago
#19104 paparazzo | Q: How to confront a friend who is a pathological liar (score: 2) | posted 3 hours ago by janee (11 rep) | edited 1 hours ago by scohe001 (8729 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
 
8:21 PM
@JakeGould It helps to ignore the gamification. — apaul 1 min ago
#3293 apaul (46746 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -2) | posted 49 minutes ago by SuperStew (185 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
@apaul I think you miss the point: If this community is so strict about comment policing to the point that simply asking for a downvote explanation is considered verboten, then why should I waste my time here other than the times I can post things and basically blow up rep. Honestly don’t care otherwise. Your solution to a problem causes new problems. Enjoy your squeaky clean community! — JakeGould 25 secs ago
#3293 JakeGould (858 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -2) | posted 52 minutes ago by SuperStew (185 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
 
Do you find this happens a lot with many different people, or is there a specific person or a few people who do this often? — nasch 1 min ago
#19064 nasch | Q: How do I deal with people that when I ask them something, they tell to others what you told them? (score: 10) | posted 36 hours ago by Alex A (195 rep) | edited 5 hours ago by Em C (8675 rep) | Toxicity 0 | tps/fps: 0/0
 
@JakeGould I don't feel you've made it clear why those kinds of comments are necessary/beneficial. We have an average of 8 new questions and 28,170 page views a day. That means on average each new question is getting 3500 views in a day (in actuality, 2-4 of those 8 will be closed and another 1-3 will take a majority of those views and hit HNQ). This results in a lot of comments. The community decided to take a "scorched Earth policy" as you put it and here we are. Can you put into words why you feel so strongly that it's "creepy" to see no comments on SE? — scohe001 1 min ago
#3293 scohe001 (8729 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -2) | posted 55 minutes ago by SuperStew (185 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
@SuperStew, comments have to be moved manually in the majority of cases, because the auto suggestion only works for conversations between two people and they don't always use it anyways. Requiring comments for down votes has also been proposed many times on main meta (first search result for example which is linked to others), if you want to read about the rationale behind that. — Em C ♦ 31 secs ago
#3293 Em C (8675 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -2) | posted 58 minutes ago by SuperStew (185 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
 
8:41 PM
@scohe001“I don't feel you've made it clear…” I really don’t care to say more than I have already. — JakeGould 1 min ago
#3293 JakeGould (858 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -3) | posted 1 hours ago by SuperStew (185 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
@JakeGould fair enough. I'm always curious to hear the logic behind letting more comments in, so if you ever do feel like sharing or have a better idea for how we should be handling/culling comments, I'd be happy to have a conversation either in IPS chat or on Meta. — scohe001 1 min ago
#3293 scohe001 (8729 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -3) | posted 1 hours ago by SuperStew (185 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
 
9:19 PM
I don't think the complaints raised by two users here are about gamification, and in my experience IPS is far far more restrictive of comments than other stacks. On other stacks, comments that explain downvotes are often used to improve the question/answer. See the main meta here: meta.stackexchange.com/questions/135/…Bryan Krause just now
#3294 Bryan Krause (1071 rep) | A: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: 0) | posted 20 minutes ago by apaul (46746 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
@BryanKrause note that that question and the answers on it are from 2009--almost a decade ago. Things have changed considerably since then. I'm not saying you're wrong, only that that may not be good evidence. — scohe001 18 secs ago
#3294 scohe001 (8729 rep) | A: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: 0) | posted 29 minutes ago by apaul (46746 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
@scohe001 I am aware, and I know the discussion has been had here about comments before, but it remains the case that IPS has a different comment policy than other stacks. — Bryan Krause 6 secs ago
#3294 Bryan Krause (1071 rep) | A: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -1) | posted 32 minutes ago by apaul (46746 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
@BryanKrause, note that that suggestion exists to encourage commenting when downvoting, while all IPS does is discouraging calling out the people that don't want to do so, the people that either vote and move on because they don't have anything constructive to say or who would rather remain anonymous. — Tinkeringbell ♦ 1 min ago
#3294 Tinkeringbell (20680 rep) | A: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: 0) | posted 35 minutes ago by apaul (46746 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
 
9:37 PM
@scohe001 Yes
 
@thesecretmaster eh I made the change on my bot and I've still been getting 0's so I'm not sure if that's the issue
 
@scohe001 Do you have a perspective key?
If you don't, it'd make sense for it to return 0 or somesuch
 
@thesecretmaster ahh probably not
 
@Tinkeringbell Understood. I initially read this answer as validating the question's premise that "community policy discourages comments that explain down votes" and arguing this was a good policy; I see now that I could instead read it more narrowly as a response to the complaint about comments that solicit downvote explanations. — Bryan Krause 1 min ago
#3294 Bryan Krause (1071 rep) | A: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: 0) | posted 40 minutes ago by apaul (46746 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
 
Okay let me push and then pull here for the bot to test then
 
9:40 PM
I know that in the production db we have 9k comments with perspective_score not 0 and not nil
 
!!/pull ips
 
Starting at rev a5d1db8 on branch scohe-dump (Merge branch 'scohe-dump' of github.com/thesecretmaster/ips-comment-bot into scohe-dump)
 
!!/manscan ips 77215
oh no
plz don't die
!!/alive
 
I'm alive!
 
Noooooo
You were the chosen one!
You were meant to bring balance to the tp's!
 
9:48 PM
@scohe001 FYI I think I'm going to only permit !!/pull when the bot is running on master, to make sure I always know what code I'm running.
 
@thesecretmaster yea it may or may not have crossed my mind that you gave me a window to run any code I wanted on your server
Probably a good update to make
 
It might have been a little rude, I rephrased the paragraph entirely, but still kept the points. And regarding the "why be direct and honest?" I think that is an approach that should not need elaborate reasoning. For me personally, direct and honest is the base approach (especially honest). You will not achieve anything in a social situation like this if you are not either convincing the other party or somehow coercing them to do what you want. The latter being generally bad. Of course there is a gradient between those two. Also: being direct avoids side issues. Focus on the topic ahead. — ArtificialSoul 5 secs ago
#3288 ArtificialSoul (546 rep) | A: Regarding the deletion of an answer for not answering the core question (score: 2) | posted 7 hours ago by Noon (2876 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
 
I mean, no harm you could do beyond e.g. destroying the DB. The machine just runs ipsbot.
!!/pull
Blorp
 
Starting at rev 7ad518b on branch master (Only permit pulling from master)
 
@thesecretmaster fair enough
What happened to ipsbot?
 
9:51 PM
Well, you killed it somehow then I killed it again by committing some merge conflicts. Gimme a sec.
 
@thesecretmaster haha it was just an innocent pull I swear!
 
Starting at rev eddd97a on branch scohe-dump (Merge conflicts)
 
!!/pull ips
 
Starting at rev eddd97a on branch scohe-dump (Merge conflicts)
 
Grr
!!/pull ips
 
9:54 PM
Starting at rev eddd97a on branch scohe-dump (Merge conflicts)
 
!!/restart ips
 
Starting at rev 38ec673 on branch scohe-dump (Merge branch 'master' into scohe-dump)
 
!!/pull ips
 
Pulling is only permitted when running on the master branch. Currently on scohe-dump.
 
Ooh spiffy!
!!/manscan ips 77215
 
9:57 PM
Do you find this happens a lot with many different people, or is there a specific person or a few people who do this often? — nasch 2 hours ago
#19064 nasch | Q: How do I deal with people that when I ask them something, they tell to others what you told them? (score: 11) | posted 38 hours ago by Alex A (200 rep) | edited 7 hours ago by Em C (8675 rep) | Toxicity 0.0746188 | tps/fps: 0/0
 
And Toxicity works now too, nice!
I think that's everything for what I've been putting together this week
Do you want me to submit a new pull from the top of my branch?
 
!!/restart ips
 
Starting at rev 05a7f4c on branch scohe-dump (Merge branch 'master' into scohe-dump)
 
@scohe001 Your current PR should be fine
 
@thesecretmaster Sounds good. I'll try to take a look at the "hot post" FR this weekend if I get some time
 
10:08 PM
Honestly, I think this is an exaggeration. Comments for some downvote reasons are encouraged, and comments for other reasons are discouraged. (I'm not saying this is the wrong choice, there's solid cause for it to be this way, but some types of explanations really are discouraged.) Sometimes it's really just that the core of an answer is totally wrong, and the only way to suggest improvement is to suggest rewriting it as a fundamentally different answer (which is generally not going to go over well) or to ask them why they think it's true, which doesn't really convey the real issues. — Cascabel 18 secs ago
#3295 Cascabel (1412 rep) | A: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: 3) | posted 36 minutes ago by Tinkeringbell (20680 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
 
10:35 PM
@BryanKrause Part of the thing with a more subjective topic is finding answers that are technically answers, but they're answers you believe to be flat wrong. Commenting in those cases raises debate, the person who wrote the answer won't be inclinded to believe they're wrong, so there isn't much point in having the argument, so there isn't much point in commenting. — apaul 1 min ago
#3294 apaul (46746 rep) | A: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: 2) | posted 1 hours ago by apaul (46746 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
 
10:48 PM
Was this about a specific downvoted post? — apaul 19 secs ago
#3293 apaul (46746 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -3) | posted 3 hours ago by SuperStew (185 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
@apaul I'm pretty sure it was this answer that prompted this post (correct me if I'm wrong SuperStew). — scohe001 just now
#3293 scohe001 (8739 rep) | Q: There's no point to down votes if comments to them are discouraged (score: -3) | posted 3 hours ago by SuperStew (185 rep) | Toxicity 0.0
 
11:43 PM
This does not provide an answer to the question. To critique or request clarification from an author, leave a comment below their post. - From ReviewElizB 35 secs ago
#19102 ElizB | A: How do I deal with people that when I ask them something, they tell to others what you told them? (score: -1) | posted 6 hours ago by TurqSpl (107 rep) | edited 6 hours ago by TurqSpl (107 rep) | Toxicity 0.102838635 | tps/fps: 0/0
 
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