@David @kimholder
The code of conduct, or at least how I read it is entirely about how you say not what you say. There are many ways to skin a cat. There are many ways to deliver a message. The problem with friendliness on SE is that exasperated "curators" are almost constantly grumpy. And I don't blame them either. Review queues are tedious, and after the 10th idiotic post in the 100th queue full of idiots, any normal person would feel annoyed to say the least.