Unfortunately, with this site, unless there is a smoking gun, with finger prints left on it, DNA of victim on the perp, unless there are eye-witnesses, a confession from the suspect, ... even then, the murderer or arsonist or vandal, or liar, or burglar or abuser won't face any consequences. So I know longer think that "polite requests for me to learn more", and when I say what I've already said, and try to learn more, "but that's too unclear", despite confessions, ....