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@DoritoStyle Lets consider a similar example. Lets pretend there's a street performer. Now, lets say this street performer's coworker found a random picture of them performing on social media. They track down their location, then proceed to harass the performer and destroy their act. Repeatedly. The performer is visibly upset, asks the harasser to stop, but that's literally the reaction the harasser is looking for, so they keep going, until eventually the street performer strikes the harasser.
Would you hold the street performer at fault? I agree you wouldn't say "most people wouldn't turn to violence," but would you denounce the ones that do in that situation? Likewise, when someone does the same through an internet platform, words are the only tools you have to defend yourself.
I'm certain OP's coworker didn't jump immediately into offensive ones, since "Each time, he [got] more visibly mad." Instead, the tried getting the harasser to stop until being provoked into doing something offensive. Just like we don't hold the street performer to perfect conduct after facing continuous harassment, why would we hold OP's coworker to that?
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The idea is that the performer is public, regardless of whether or not they were "caught on camera". The analogy seems to intend to take an online event and represent it as an event in real life. In that case, the analogy for being "caught" making slurs while streaming is being "caught" making slurs while performing in public.
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