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19:36
@DamkerngT. hi
@IceGirl Hello
“I’m calling about … I … my mother just died … I was told to call you and see about a
… death-benefit check, I think they call it …” what does (death-benefit check) mean?
Oh, must be something related to insurance.
If the mother had a life insurance, the insurance company must pay the money when she died.
@IceGirl death-benefit check would be a check for that money
ok
“Smith. Martha Smith. Or maybe she used Martha Ruth Smith.
… Sometimes she used her maiden name … Martha Jerabek Smith.”
maiden name?
miss
right?
or girl?
@DamkerngT. right?
Oh, sorry, trying to answer some other questions.
19:48
do you have time to answer my questions?
np
I'm switching between windows.
now answer please
right or wrong?
I'm 100% sure, but about 90% sure that maiden name means the name before she's got married.
In many countries, women change their name or last name after they got married, right?
And maiden name should be the name before they got married.
maiden means an unmarried young woman
19:51
a woman's family name before she got married and started using her husband's family name?
right?
@IceGirl Yes
(about 90% sure) :-)
:)
In Iran this one is true
@IceGirl I guess.
But more and more countries allow women to keep their maiden names.
sure
yes
“If you’d care to hold on, I’ll check our records – it’ll be a few minutes.”
If you’d care to hold on?
please wait. right?
Yes
(I'm going to get rid of some windows on my computer)
19:56
why?
It's a little difficult for me to switching between the windows that are too far apart. :-)
I have like several hundred windows on my screen.
So I need to close some of them.
Better now.
Her love letters – to and from Daddy – were in an old box, tied with ribbons and stiff,
rigid-with-age leather thongs
why use Daddy with a capital letter?
Hmm... I think it's possible sometimes.
When the writer wants to emphasize about the Dad.
20:00
sure?
Yes, I think I've read about it recently.
good
That some writers will write words such as Dad, Mom, Sister, in capital.
But not every writer.
tied with?
Hmm...
You know the word tie, right?
20:02
yes
The box was tied with ribbons and leather thongs.
You can ask if you don't understand what I've just said.
thongs?
(I'm not sure I explained it well enough.)
thong is usually a narrow strip, and usually made of leather.
So it's actually quite like a rope, but in this case, it's used for binding (or tying) the box.
a long thin piece of leather used to fasten something or as part of a whip
right?
20:09
hers written on stationery from the
general store she had worked in full-time and managed, single-handed, after her
graduation from high school in 1913;
stationery ?
@IceGirl stationery usually means a set of writing tools (pens, pencils, papers, ink, ...)
But it can also mean the store that sells these tools.
written on stationery?
means?
More context might be better...
Her love letters – to and from Daddy – were in an old box, tied with ribbons and stiff,
rigid-with-age leather thongs: 1918 through 1920; hers written on stationery from the
general store she had worked in full-time and managed, single-handed, after her
graduation from high school in 1913; and his, at first, on YMCA or Soldiers and Sailors
Club stationery dispensed to the fighting men of World War I. He wooed her thoroughly
and persistently by mail, and though she reciprocated all his feelings for her, she dreaded
With what I've got, my best interpretation is her writing written on papers.
20:14
ok. thanks
This stationery should be the papers that she bought (or got) from the store she had worked with.
hers must mean her love letters
yes
exactly
general store?
Must be store that sells things in general.
Quite like a grocery.
I think you can find grocery in a dictionary.
Can i say (different kinds of things)?
Perhaps "different kinds of things". Yes.
I don't know if there are supermarkets in Iran.
Or maybe department stores.
20:18
oh, come on. of course it has
I think a grocery is quite like a supermarket in the old day.
I'm sure you must have it, but I'm not sure how you call it.
(I meant no offense, trust me)
@IceGirl Are you still there?
his refer to what in this sentence?
yes
and his, at first.......
Perhaps, her lover.
The whole passage is about a box of love letters.
20:28
Soldiers and Sailors
Club stationery?
The woman ran a general store. And the man was a soldier (or a sailor) in World War 1.
stationery is the same meaning you said a few minutes ago?
Yes
I think you know what do soldier and sailor mean.
yes sure
it's easy
"Soldiers and Sailors Club" must be a club for these soldiers and sailors
It's where these soldiers and sailors can meet, and talk together, and maybe some other activities.
20:32
okay
According to the paragraph, the man seems to be a soldier (or a sailor), and he used the papers he got from the club to write to his lover.
@DamkerngT. Thanks for a good main idea
:-)
You're welcome!
fighting men?
men who fight, in other words, soldiers
20:36
ok
reciprocated?
to one another
In the context, it means the man had a feeling for her, and so was she. (She had a feeling for him too.)
she reciprocated all his feelings for her?
can you explain this sentence?^^
ok
“It’s so hard for me to decide when to have my wedding day – that’s all I’ve thought
about these last two days. I have told you dozens of times that I won’t be afraid of
married life, but when it comes down to setting the date and then picturing myself a
married woman with half a dozen or more kids to look after, it just makes me sick. I am
weeping right now – I hope that some day I can look back and say how foolish I was to
dread it all.”
dozens of times=alot of?
Oh, it seems like she's really afraid of the marriage.
@IceGirl Yes.
Literally, means many dozens of times
this essay is so nice.
I'm not sure. But it seems like she worried too much.
20:43
half a dozen?
A dozen = 12
Half a dozen = 6
Maybe she worried about taking care of too many children.
main idea this paragraph?
She's really afraid of the marriage.
20:46
They married in February 1921, and began farming. Their first baby, a daughter, was
born in January 1922, when my mother was 26 years old. The second baby, a son, was
born in March 1923. They were renting farms; my father, besides working his own fields,
also was a hired man for two other farmers. They had no capital initially, and had to gain
it slowly, working from dawn until midnight every day. My town-bred mother learned to
set hens and raise chickens, feed pigs, milk cows, plant and harvest a garden, and can
hired man?
A man who is hired.
This means that there are two other farmers hired the father too.
So the father worked his own fields...
and also worked for two other farmers.
Their lives were not easy.
They seemed to have to work hard.
Both the husband (father) and the wife (mother).
capital=money?
Yes
It's the money for investing in something.
This means that they can't buy their own farm.
Because they didn't have enough capital (money).
stop please
They were renting farms
20:52
sorry
town-bred?
She born in town.
As in those who born in a big city.
A town-bred person would know nothing much about farming.
(Unlike a country-bred person.)
She carried water nearly a quarter of a mile?
It means that there was no water near where she lived.
a quarter of a mile = 1/4 mile
(In Iran, do you use miles or kilometers?)
kilometers
or meters
It's about 0.4 km.
21:00
oh, thanks
And she had to carry water that long back to her place.
Very very tough life.
yes
agree
on a scrub board?
It's the old way to wash clothes.
I think some people still do that in some part of the world.
They rub their clothes on a board.
(It's good that I've a washing machine.)
21:06
:)
(I used to wash my clothes with my hands when I was young.)
:)
now you are young too
Maybe not that young anymore. :-)
But thank you.
you're welcome
feed threshers?
shuck and husk corn?
I don't know this word: threshers
But shuck and husk corn must mean getting the corn seeds out of the raw corn.
(The same way people get the rice out of the rice seeds.)
threshers ~ a person or machine that separates grain from the plants by beating
Perhaps that's the thresher we're talking about.
21:13
can i say workers?
This is what I'm not sure, since thresher can mean both the man and the machine.
But I think feed threshers should mean feed these people.
Because I guess that there shouldn't be many such machines.
So the workers is quite likely.
yes. I write feed to workers
OK
And she had to feed corn pickers too.
So workers should be correct.
But because this is the US, and Americans love machines.
So it's still possible that threshers and corn pickers were the machines.
And she must learn to feed the grains and corns into these machines.
Machines like these.
21:18
okay
over rutted?
why use over rutted?
why use over here?
They moved.
Move over those rutted roads.
can you explain more about it?
Do you know the word rut?
That is an example of rutted and muddy road
It's rutted because it's not smooth.
21:21
I can't see this picture
And it's muddy.
Okay, wait...
Can you see it now?
I know about the meaning, I don't know why the writer used (over) here?
yes
thanks
They moved their stuff (all their livestock and belongings) by themselves.
And they moved these stuff over that kind of roads.
over ~ on
Imagine trying to move things on that kind of roads.
Very difficult.
ok now main idea?
And it was 55 miles. (~ 90 km)
21:25
Wow
Yes. Their lives were though.
Their lives were though. can be a main idea
thesis statement?
Huh?
I'm not sure about thesis statement.
It should cover the entire essay.
21:27
at least please tell me ok continue the next one
OK
But not for very long, okay?
In the summer of 1930 my mother and her two eldest children reclaimed a 40 – acre field
from Canadian thistles, by chopping them all out with a hoe. In the other fields, when the
oats and flax began to head out, the green and blue of the crops were hidden by the bright
yellow of wild mustard. My mother walked the fields day after day, pulling each mustard
plant. She raised a new flock of baby chicks – 500 – and she spaded up, planted, hoed,
and harvested a half-acre garden.
some parts are easy
I can see that.
wait
please
21:30
ok Let's...
Why use eldest instead of oldest?
here
They have the same meaning.
Back in the old days, people usually use eldest when talking about people rather than oldest.
the eldest of a group of people, especially brothers and sisters, is the one who was born first
right?
Yes
two eldest children ~ the first two children of hers
21:34
reclaimed a 40 – acre field
from Canadian thistles?
Canadian thistles must be a kind of vegetables or weeds
reclaimed ~ to bring back
kind of bushes?
right?
Ah, yes.
40 acres ~ 161874 square meters
It's huge.
~ 0.1618 square km
So she got rid of those bushes, and reclaim the land for farming.
wait
21:38
THANKS
@IceGirl OK is a special word, it can be written as Okay or OK. Sometimes people write it as ok, but that's not quite right (as when you write I as i).
OK. right I"ll try to write it right
Let's continue.
Where are we now?
Sorry?
Which sentence are you reading?
21:43
by chopping them all out with a hoe
Do you know chop? hoe?
Cut?
Yes. chop ~ cut
hoe is an equipment for digging earth.
So chopping them all out with a hoe is digging and cutting all those bushes with a hoe
to get rid of those Canadian thistles.
21:45
when the
oats and flax began to head out, the green and blue of the crops were hidden by the bright
yellow of wild mustard.
It's hard
Which part?
Please explain it
Whole
oats and flax
I think you know oat meals
yes
head out?
head out ~ grow out
21:47
come out
right?
green and blue?
So she wanted to grow oats and flax...
(I'm not sure about the colors, but according to the essay oats and flax must be green and blue.)
However, while she was growing oats and flax, wild mustard grew too.
And she didn't want wild mustard.
I think you should know mustard.
Some of us like to eat it. (I don't.)
It's yellow spicy sauce.
I think these wild mustards are bright yellow.
And perhaps, wild mustard can grow faster than oats and flax.
And that became her problem.
21:51
a yellow sauce with a strong taste, eaten especially with meat
a plant with yellow flowers and seeds that are used to make mustard sauce
Yes
I think wild mustard must be pretty close to mustard.
walked the fields?
she walked around the fields
(to look after her fields)
ok
flock of baby ?
crowd?
flock=crowd
I think it's baby chicken.
Yes. It's a new flock of baby chicks.
When we raise lots of chickens, or birds, we call a group of them -> a flock.
It's similar to a herd for cows.
21:56
spaded up?
spade is another kind of digging equipment.
Do you play cards?
Perhaps not.
No
Why?
Let's say that spaded up ~ dug up.
This spade digging tool looks a lot like the ones on the cards.
dug?
dig in past tense
21:58
OK
ok is fine too. I'm not that very strict. :-)
A spade is a tool designed primarily for the purpose of digging or removing earth and spreading the soil. Early spades were made of riven wood. After the art of metalworking was discovered, spades were made with sharper tips of metal. Before the introduction of metal spades manual labor was less efficient at moving earth, with picks being required to break up the soil in addition to a spade for moving the dirt. With a metal tip, a spade can both break and move the earth in most situations, increasing efficiency. Etymology English spade is from Old English ' (f.) or ' (m.). The same ...

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