@SillyGoose as far as I can tell you're still not writing it out fully, e.g. as
$$\mathrm{tr} (A \wedge B) = A_{\mu}^a B_{\nu}^b dx^{\mu} \wedge dx^{\nu} \mathrm{tr} (T^a T^b) = - B_{\nu}^b A_{\mu}^a dx^{\nu} \wedge dx^{\mu} \mathrm{tr} (T^b T^a) = - \mathrm{tr} (B \wedge A)$$
$$\mathrm{tr} (A \wedge B) = A_{\mu}^a B_{\nu}^b dx^{\mu} \wedge dx^{\nu} \mathrm{tr} (T^a T^b) = - B_{\nu}^b A_{\mu}^a dx^{\nu} \wedge dx^{\mu} \mathrm{tr} (T^b T^a) = - \mathrm{tr} (B \wedge A)$$