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Q: How do I tell other gay people that they sound stupid calling themselves "queer"?

rbsdcaI've heard the word "queer" being used to describe a subset (I guess) of the gay and lesbian population. When I think of "queer" I think of the stereotypical characteristics of a sissy. I think the term is being used as an attempt to shock people, but I just think it sounds stupid. Also, I'm n...

Goes together with the one I reported on Sunday: chat.stackexchange.com/transcript/message/41790541#41790541
Check it out please?
 
 
3 hours later…
1:19 PM
@Tinkeringbell Some questions are simply bad questions... we've had them before and will have them again.
 
@Catija Hmm...my thought was that this was just getting worse, and could use some looking in to, but if that's not the case... I'll keep it in mind ;)
 
2:20 PM
@Catija? We deleted this one: interpersonal.stackexchange.com/questions/8150/….... I'm currently in a discussion about that one with @JarkoDubbeldam in the Awkward Silence... And wondering whether that should stay deleted or not, have we decided that one was a troll question?
 
@Tinkeringbell probably not? It's got problems but it's not quite the same?
 
@Catija Okay ;) Then maybe we should indeed have a meta about deleting stuff ;)
(especially stuff with reopen votes)
 
@Catija This could be made into a really good question with a quick edit... interpersonal.meta.stackexchange.com/questions/2289/…
 
@apaul So edit it? ;) heroic edits wanted. If they roll back, we'll delete it because they seem to not want to ask a question, they want to rant.
 
@Catija Hmm... I was a little hesitant to do that because it looked like I was the one who caused the offense that sparked the question.
 
2:34 PM
As a note, HDE and I were talking yesterday... we fully support finding trolls and dealing with them but we're both concerned that we're going a bit overboard seeing trolls under every bad question. :) Shog did warn us not to get paranoid.
 
@apaul I've answered your meta... but then again, I don't really know what you were thinking of doing with it... Personally, I would wait for OP's input, to see if this is really about people calling them queer or about other people calling themselves/eachother queer
That makes a pretty big difference that isn't clear from the question as is now
@Catija Okay, I'll keep it in mind. I was just wondering if you'd looked into that question and found whether or not it matched the trolling pattern (,)... and was a troll. Because that's pretty relevant for the meta from Jarko ;)
 
@Tinkeringbell From the wording of the question, I would guess that it's a "both/and" not an "either/or"
 
@Tinkeringbell well, you can still see the edit history to see if it ends with a comma, but I wonder if the troll knows we see the pattern or if they took the weekend off.
 
@apaul Then, that makes it too broad... and the second one is unfit for this site since you can't control what other people do, and I'm certainly not going to give advice on how to call people stupid
Then I would be giving the OP advice on how to call you stupid @apaul, I don't really think that's a good idea?
Well, the comma was there, which is one of the reasons why I started casting a delete vote after a day or so of no reaction from the OP...

I dunno if that was right or not, I'll be awaiting answers to Jarko's meta
 
2:50 PM
Driving:P
 
@Tinkeringbell That's why I thought toning down some of the anger was needed. "Why do people use the word queer, when some find it offensive?" Or "How do I ask people not to use the word queer because I find it offensive?" would both be better titles.
 
@Catija Then GET OFF YOUR PHONE! You've got a kid that needs you longer than just today!
I think the second one *might* work, if it's about not using it where the OP is near/can hear... Because you can't really change what people do when you're not there...

But anyways, even for the second one I'd like to see input from the OP... :/
Because that's pretty different from what the question is now (call them stupid/don't get called queer myself)
 
@Tinkeringbell I only type when I'm stopped at a light.
 
@Catija Still a bad habit :P
 
3:00 PM
@Catija Awwwww
 
I made a cute person. 😍😍😍
 
3:16 PM
@Catija you really did. Even better than the hat
 
 
6 hours later…
9:18 PM
It's a salacious humble-brag that looks like it's trying to hit every button possible.
 
@TheSnarkKnight Nope.
@TheSnarkKnight Something pushing your buttons does not equal "trying to hit every button possible." We need to be careful about seeing trolls everywhere. If we start shutting down good faith users, and going on witch hunts the trolls accomplish their disruption without doing anything.
 

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