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6:38 AM
Feel free to use this room to post links to posts that you think need to be checked out - for various reasons. Please avoid making any negative statements. If a post is made in good faith, it's better to leave this room free of accusation.
 
6:48 AM
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Q: How can I broach the subject of a "friends with benefits" relationship while avoiding being accused of sexual harassment?

user9855Living in the age of Tinder and other hookup / dating apps, people have casual partners called "friends with benefits". How can I ask someone - on Tinder, OkCupid, text message or email - if she would like to become friends with benefits? I asked one girl in a text -- she commented that it wa...

 
7:43 AM
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Q: Asking my husband to consider a threesome with my personal trainer,

user10362Lately I've been really into personal training with "Jerome", not just for reasons of physical fitness; he's also hella cute. We do a lot of work with the medicine ball and free weights - and lots of stretching exercises. I've been considering asking my husband "Matthew" whether he'd be open to...

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Q: Telling coworkers that I am uncomfortable with their racist rants, without outcasting myself from the group,

user10360I work with a group of very smart, driven Caucasian (white) men, who are all very easy to get along with in the office. Recently we all went out for our holiday party at a fancy hotel bar-restaurant. It was on this night out that I learned of their true colors. I was the only minority in the g...

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Q: How can I tell a girl I want to progress our relationship to sex?

user10285There's this girl who I've been seeing for coffee on the weekends - we met through a fairly new dating app called Bumble, and we clicked right away. The problem is that I'm typically horrible at knowing how to move forward: how can I tell a girl I want to progress our relationship to sex?

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Q: Roommate entering my bedroom and stealing from me, when I'm not at home,

user10175These last several weeks we've been living with a new male roommate, and I've been noticing lately that my wallet's missing cash - if I went to the ATM to take out a $100, and spent $20 on food for one day, the next morning when I start my day, I should have about $80. Instead I have about $20 -...

 
 
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2:47 PM
You know, 'The Checkout Lane' would have been funnier :P
 
 
1 hour later…
4:12 PM
room topic changed to The Checkout Lane: For when you need to checkout of the Awkward Silence (no tags)
 
4:38 PM
Hello....what is the purpose of this room? @Catija @Tinkeringbell
 
uh huh...
 
 
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6:24 PM
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Q: How to ask a female date to split the bill during a date?

user10384The setting is at a classic American restaurant. You are a male in his 20s, good-looking, in good physical shape, smart, and caring, and you are meeting a female, also in her early 20s, for dinner, dessert, and possibly more. The music of Bruno Mars and John Legend plays softly in the backgroun...

 
6:52 PM
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Q: Asking female date to split the bill

user10386new user here. I posted a question before but can't access it anymore since I'm not a registered user. But based on Dan Anderson's advice to "cut out all the crap" and that it's enough to ask how do I best ask my date to split the bill without offending her, I would like to ask exactly this ques...

 
7:06 PM
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Q: Crush on my teacher

user377340How do I tell my biology teacher that I have a crush on her. She’s not much older to me just some 6-7 years older. How do I go about? We are out of touch from a year so how do I get back in conversation again? How do I get her into bed?

I feel really uncomfortable commenting here... maybe something for a mod?
 
@Tinkeringbell okay, found it, thanks.
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Q: How to Handle Openly Hostile Strangers On the Subway?

mercurialThree times on my commute around town on the subway, I've encountered people who are openly hostile for whatever reason, potentially drugs or alcohol or maybe just naturally violent. In two cases the person in question went around the train shouting death threats at people, pounding on the doors ...

Not sure about this one either ^^^^^
 
@TheSnarkKnight Doesn't really fit the pattern I was noticing....
But okay ;) Let the mods check it :)
 
7:37 PM
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Q: How can I go back in touch with a former teacher I have a crush on?

user377340She’s not much older to me just some 6-7 years older. We have been out of touch for a year, but I'd like to get back in conversation again. We have many times met on general outings like movies, etc. Even she seems interested in me as she seems to pay more attention to me even during the classe...

I think I fixed it...let's see if the OP leaves it.
 
@Tinkeringbell I just don't know what to do with that one. How to respond to crazies on a train....
 
@TheSnarkKnight Same. I have no real experience on a subway.
 
@MisterPositive I do. I amplified my "resting psycho face". Nobody ever bothered me.
dang, didn't click fast enough :D
 
DELETE vote cast on our special question.
heading out, later guys.
He just un-did @Catija edit.....
now I am really leaving LOL
 
7:52 PM
@MisterPositive Nope. There's one from OP in between
That was rolled back, that was a good call
 
and he just called her out for trying to edit it in shape...
 
NVZ
8:05 PM
NVZ checking in.
 
@NVZ bleep
$priceless
 
NVZ
 
NVZ
8:21 PM
This should be The Dark Side.
Here we destroy planets. Or at least, we think before we do so.
 
@NVZ We plan et
 
NVZ
Haha
 
NVZ
8:38 PM
@MisterPositive pass.
 
Because the user said they don't have access to the other account where they first posted the question, but considering that this second one is very rude towards a particular user: https://interpersonal.stackexchange.com/questions/8173/asking-female-date-to-split-the-bill

Do we delete the second one?
Or delete the first one and copy-paste it's content to the second one for the user to improve when they feel like it?
 

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