My boyfriend does not have good hygiene and i choose to ignore it because i’ve became immune to it. Well this pass weekend he went camping with me and my family and we went to a party. well everyone acknowledged in a way that he smelled and my dad recommended telling him he could shower. so i did...

Someone I know shared on her socials she is going to a public event. I'd love to join her & her friend but we're not close, so I have no idea if she'd like me to. Is there a way to message her, so that she can reject me with plausible deniability?