The Awkward Silence

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2:03 AM

Q: Boyfriend did something weird while making out

Me and my boyfriend planned to make out, it was only our second time making out. We planned to take shirts off but nothing about bra. While we made out, he peeled back my bra a little and looked at my nipple. It caught me off guard so I asked if he saw anything and he said no. I asked him if he w...

1 hour later…

Extroverted Main Man

3:17 AM

Q: Breaking bad relationship patterns

I'm just beginning to see that for years I've been caught in this cycle of starting romantic relationships that were doomed from the start. It's always, I meet someone with insecurity issues who is very secretive and private, develop a feverish obsession over them mixed with protective feelings, ...

romance

6 hours later…

Alex Robinson

9:26 AM

Morning all, I am very glad my past self wasn't lazy and made a spreadsheet that generalised a problem rather than solving a specific instance of the problem

my morning workload has decreased significantly

Tinkeringbell

10:21 AM

That sounds nice :)

I've been so lazy during the heatwave that I now have three days to do all the things I had planned to do during three weeks of vacation... :/

And some extra's, like having a garden coach coming by this evening. At least it's not hot anymore...

Journeyman Geek

why does the garden need coaching?

Tinkeringbell

@JourneymanGeek Because all the little plants are looking very sad ;)

Nah.

It's a thing offered by the municipality, and you get someone that knows their stuff about gardens and help you plan yours.

Journeyman Geek

ahh

Tinkeringbell

In a 'sustainable' way.

So, we'll look at how my garden can be made to retain water, and keep sun of the front facade, for example.

At the end of the evening, I'm supposed to have a checklist of stuff I can do, and a better idea of what I actually want to do with the front yard.

13 hours later…

Extroverted Main Man

11:50 PM

Q: How should I respectfully interact with a woman in my team when the boundaries are not clear?

I have a female coworker who I find attractive. I’m married and she is too and I don’t want or even think that it is possible to be anything more than coworkers not even friends. We work in a very male dominated domain and I have never worked in a team with a woman for more than one week. I have ...