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Q: How to encourage partner to take Plan B after having sex where condom broke?

ChipChellWhen having sex the condom broke. The next day I bought Plan B emergency contraceptive. The lady doesn't want to take it. She said her period just started so that means she won't get pregnant. From my understanding there's still a chance a woman can get pregnant even if she starts her period th...

 
 
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Q: Dealing with a white lie that caused problems

JesseSo we have a new intern in the office. They are entirely unpaid and only really here because their uni makes it mandatory. Boss welcomes the free labour as there are plenty of small spare projects and as it is free labour, so they can choose whatever projects/hours they want to do, as long as it ...

 
4:14 AM
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Q: How can I handle someone railroading conversations?

JesseSo I have a few fairly new friends. Most are very quiet and shy except for one person who is super confident, friendly and LOUD... lets call her Lucy. The other day the 6 of us had a barbecue where Lucy got a little tipsy while everyone else stayed sober. This lead to the conversation being compl...

 
 
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6:31 AM
wooh. So many questions overnight!
 
 
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8:22 AM
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8:50 AM
Morning :)
@avazula Yea, i can see xD
@IPSCommentBot morning cat
 
Accurate xD
 
AAAAW
Heh, considering the frequency at which I say it, I think we could establish "AAAAAW" as my motto in life
 
@ExtrovertedMainMan This one reads like a 'make my argument for me'?
 
9:50 AM
@ExtrovertedMainMan this has a lit post history
 
@CaldeiraG <3
 
10:23 AM
I just realize the beautiful piece of code I have been working on for a few hours is... mostly useless. My heart is broken :'(
 
@Ælis :(
 
11:23 AM
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Q: How to react when you think you spouse has overreacted?

luke skywalkerA very specific example. We are expecting a second child - great news! One of my colleagues who recently had their second said to us via social media "now the fun begins guys - having a second is difficult :0". My spouse said "where's our congratulations?". She asked me if I agree with what she ...

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Q: How to tell something "shameful" with grace?

RaktThis question is generic, however I have a specific case in mind. I had a terrible undergraduate academic record. I have worked in the industry for past many years, and grown a lot since then, intellectually and skill-wise. However, whenever telling someone about my undergraduate GPA, I "look" ...

 
@ExtrovertedMainMan intrapersonal...
 
11:53 AM
@Ælis Hmm... I think we can add a non-verbal language tag and be good?
 
@Tinkeringbell Maybe, I don't know. In any case, that's definitively not an "etiquette" question (or else, I'm really missing something?)
 
Nope, that right. I edited the tags ;)
I'm working on the question body now
There... take a look, what do you think?
 
@Tinkeringbell Seems much more better, thanks :)
 
Yay. It seems the edit is going to stick too, so time to upvote the question :P
 
A J
12:08 PM
Friday joke.
> Spider: Why are you terrified by me?
Me: Well the reasons I had have all now been replaced by the fact you can talk.
 
12:25 PM
 
12:43 PM
@AJ XD
 
1:26 PM
Pfew... that was fun to answer :D
 
1:45 PM
Programming horror story of the morning comes from what I was doing yesterday afternoon. We run our code locally in containers because in production it's deployed to kubernetes. I was working inside the container running on my local machine yesterday and had the need to edit some files. As it turns out, there are no text editors installed in our container, so I found myself editing with sed and checking that my edits were correct by using cat to print full files to the command line
 
@Tinkeringbell Don't know about that, but it's a very nice answer anyway :)
@Rainbacon Ouch, I already find it painful when I have to use vim to edit file, but this is next level x)
 
@Ælis Fortunately for me, a lot of the sed commands are similar to vim commands, and I do use vim, so it wasn't the worst thing to get used to
 
JAD
hmm, why not install vim or nano in the container?
 
too much work
:p
Plus now I have that fun story to tell
 
@Rainbacon As a French person, I can only approve: "never miss a (good) opportunity to rant" :p
 
1:56 PM
@Ælis Seems like a good motto to live by
 
JAD
@Rainbacon apt-get install /whatever/?
 
2:07 PM
@Ælis Thank you! I almost lost it when I saw the edit, but luckily it was easy to adapt the answer :)
 
@Tinkeringbell It's always the risk when answering a "fresh" question. That's why I find it less stressful to write questions than answers, you can take all the time you want and it doesn't matter ^^
 
Heh. And then change your question once it has an answer? :P
It's okay, I like answering a bit better than asking... it allows me to dive into things and increase my own understanding of how things work, AND share that with other people :)
 
JAD
@Tinkeringbell if it invalidates existing answers, just roll back the edit? ;)
 
@Tinkeringbell Only if I dislike the person who answered :p
 
@JAD It didn't, luckily enough :)
 
2:13 PM
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(hops in trash can)
 
2:26 PM
"hops in trash can" god what a mood
 
let's have some cat @ips
 
Oh, this one is very cute * - *
 
2:42 PM
Cute :) good morning all!
it's a very cold day here in the northeast United States 😬
 
Good morning! It's a sunny, pleasant afternoon here in the South ;)
 
Oh dang it's raining questions today and I forgot my umbrella
 
3:15 PM
@ElizB "feels like" 23 F here :((( so far I've resisted pulling out my winter jacket, but I might regret that when I wait for the bus tonight
 
@EmC I may regret not having a hat and scarf when I get up to your neck of the woods
 
@Rainbacon may -> will, if it stays this cold + windy :P
 
Yikes
Fortunately, I don't think we're going to be outside too much
 
yeah that'll help :)
and depends on when you'll be here of course, the 10day forecast right now ranges from highs of 32 to 53.. we haven't quite given up on fall yet
 
3:38 PM
32 is hot af
 
Fahrenheit ;)
 
JAD
0-10C in sensible units ;)
 
oop. what's that in real units
 
JAD
What can I say? I'm clairvoyant
:P
 
273.15 K?
 
JAD
3:45 PM
That's about where the min and max temps are at here as well
 
@EmC I'm taking the train up this evening and I'll be there until Sunday
I've heard that snow is possible
 
@Rainbacon oh nice :D
there've been rumors of impending snow all week, but so far haven't seen any in/near the city
so you'll probably be ok :)
 
We're staying with my wife's aunt who lives in the suburbs to the north, but I think we're going to be mostly in the city
 
4:03 PM
planning to do touristy things?
 
We're going to some of the museums and the freedom trail, but we're also doing some other things that I don't quite understand, for instance: this
 
hahah what
 
I'm not really sure. When I read the event description I gathered that there is this fantasy world with monsters, but I'm not sure exactly what we do with them. I think we watch them fight, but I could be wrong
Her aunt seemed really interested in it, so we're going to give it a try
 
heh the place hosting it is fairly close to me actually, they seem to host some .. offbeat acts :P
 
IOW, you're gonna be the Kaiju.
Something tells me Gulliver's travel would be a different story from the Liliputian perspective
 
4:14 PM
@M.A.R. but then who pilots the jaeger
 
That obnoxious general from Belfuscu
 
... that'd be an interesting crossover
 
4:49 PM
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Q: How to say in a courteous but implicit way you are not interested to date?

John LegasI have a lady that I've dated once. Since that date, we did not have many interactions except some text messages as she is a MD and my mum has some health issues and we are discussing, from time to time on that. We also happen to know some friends together, just know. She became a platonic ac...

 
 
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7:54 PM
Holy moly @Tink, just saw that answer you wrote for the question that just went HNQ--great read!!
 
Yeah, I feel like that question and answer are the model for what good IPS posts should be
 
^^^
Just a bummer it's on a Friday so not as many ppl will see it :/
 
Yeah
We'll just have to set up a rotation of high rep users putting up bounties to keep it visible for the next month or so :)
 
LOL speak for yourself, I've already got dibs on first bounty :p
 
 
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9:14 PM
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Q: Why do organizations hold events on Friday night, but not Saturday?

user3503704On Saturday, no new sitcoms come on network TV, but new shows come on Friday and Sunday. People always tell me "that's because people go out on Saturday", but organizations have regular events on Friday evenings, not Saturday.

 
@ExtrovertedMainMan :/
 
@ExtrovertedMainMan huh?
4 subscribers verified account on youtube youtube.com/channel/UC2WZkQBd3n3LNjEQI5PrUww lol
 
I'm a bit lost with how to respond to that one tbh
 
9:29 PM
Maybe refer them to TWP? But make them read the help pages first? I'm not actually sure if this'd be on-topic there. But it'd definitely be closer
 
I don't see how it's related to workplace either, there's no info on why they're asking..
I'd think the TV scheduling thing is more about industry norms, too.. maybe Movies & TV? :P
 
I have no clue where we should send that. I'm also not sure if it's a good enough question for a merge to get accepted
 
Oh I guess I read it as OP's company has employee events Friday nights
But I see how they may be talking about other companies hosting events they want to go to
 
@Rainbacon yeah I wouldn't feel comfortable migrating that, in its current form.. it just seems super vague right now
there's no mention of work stuff, and they tagged it "friends"??
just left a comment though
 
I VTC as unclear for the time being
 
9:44 PM
tbh I thought it might be spam at first because of the random dance studio link, but they have other posts across the network that look fine. /shrug
@Rainbacon thanks ;)
In general, church, clubs, bars, schools will schedule more events on Friday. I'm asking because I'm overloaded with things-to-do Sunday-Friday, but Saturdays are dead. — user3503704 5 mins ago
hmmm. the help center does say "understanding social norms as they relate to interpersonal interactions"
 
Hmm, my gut instinct says this doesn't fall under that, but I have no hard evidence
 
but the "interpersonal interaction" here is.. scheduling/attending an event? :/
yeah
 
Yeah, that seems like the issue. There is a social norm, but not really an interpersonal interaction
 
yeah! that's a great way to put it
 

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