The Awkward Silence - 2018-12-04 (page 1 of 2)

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12:31 AM

hi y'all... surviving the last week of the semester :P bye again

@ElizB :)! ... :(

good luck!!

@EmC Thanks! i'll be done with the semester by the 14th, so you'll see me around lots more after that.

i plan on catching up :P

hooray :)

it's been too quiet lately after all the Europeans go to bed :P

Those sleepy Europeans...

heh, yeah. currently working on finishing a presentation due tomorrow morning, adding the final touches

12:38 AM

@Alex always being half a dozen time zones ahead of us...

(+/- a few)

@EmC Or behind.

and the Australians, well, they straight up time travel (so I'm told)

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Extroverted Main Man

6:04 AM

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Q: How can i ask for money return from friends without being sounding like money-mindedness person or selfish?

My 2 close friends borrowed a handsome amount from me without mentioning any deadline and that time I've had enough so i gave the amount, it's been 5 months when i gave the amount but now i need my money back but they both don't talk about the borrowed amount. I am feeling very uncomfortable to ...

Extroverted Main Man

6:19 AM

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Q: Introverted Person Dealing with an Extroverted Friend

I am an introverted person, with a somewhat antisocial personality. My best friend, on the other hand, is much more extroverted than me and likes to hang out with other people. Frequently, when we eat in the college cafeteria, she prefers to sit with friends she knows (which I don’t necessarily k...

6:49 AM

Hmmmm For some reason I now just have a tag score of 11 for autism-spectrum while I had like 120 for asperger :x

7:06 AM

@dhein probably just need some time before the score is updated

7:34 AM

Probably, yeh

Hel-lo every-one! ♪

7:50 AM

@avazula Hallöle :D

@dhein Ooh! What's that? I didn't know Dutch has umlaut!

dutch? 0o

I am german xD

@dhein Oh sorry pal, I misread your username and fought it was somebody else ^_^

@avazula it has, but not for the reason German does, except for loaned words

Ohhhhh :x

7:56 AM

Dutch knows a bunch of contracted vowels (ie, ui, au, ou, ij, eu). Whenever two vowels are contracted and should be pronounced separately, the " is used to avoid ambiguity

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Take the word huis for example. The ui combination is by default pronounced as one consonant. Annuïteit also has the ui combination, but the u and the i are pronounced as separate vowels and syllables

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Yea, yea, I know ...

8:01 AM

is that question even on topic?

looks like it belongs on ELU

Am I on movies se right now? xD

@JAD I don't know. I asked a similar one recently and we also wondered whether it was an IPS or a language matter. I think it could be both, but that's my opinion

And thanks for the insight on Dutch linguistics!

My personal favourite is the past tense for updated

geüpdatet

@JAD Good Cash I love that word. Perfect blend of German and English

Good Morning o/

8:07 AM

\o

o/

was at a 'The Prodigy' concert yesterday. Damn they are awesome

@Cashbee NO WAY? Darn!

Must've been so cool!

@avazula hehe, in Dutch, loaned verbs from english work as if they were Dutch, resulting in weird things like this

if I were to directly translate it into dutch, and then turn it into past tense it would go opdateren -> opgedateerd, which doesn't have that ambiguity with the ge prefix

8:23 AM

@avazula yes way! third time I see them live, they do not disappoint

8:43 AM

@Cashbee It sounds so cool

@JAD I tried to learn Dutch ... Writing isn't so hard, but pronouncing, oh Cash ... that's another story

Extroverted Main Man

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Q: how to manage my 2 superiors conflict's

So, this morning when I got to work, I found my two superiors (a project manager and a manager) arguing about some models, I did not see the beginning of the dispute so I can not say what exactly it was. the problem is that after this dispute, I was really uncomfortable, I did not know how to rea...

work-environment conflicts coworkers

@avazula it was kind of contraproductive to my wellness weekend, but it was worth it xD

@Cashbee You mean you're exhausted? xD

@avazula hehe

9:39 AM

@Cashbee you had a wellness weekend or you are gonna have one? :D If so, how was it? if not, I don't see the counterproductivity ^^

@dhein i had one, it was awesome

very relaxing and a great way to spend a weekend with my gf

Arrrrrggg, the front team don't put ids on their button/field/etc... and I can't make good UI (User Interface) test without it. But I'm still supposed to present some UI test this afternoon ><

Plus, the head of the front team is kind of condescending and act like I don't really need it... Sure, I could do without but that would be bad code!!!

@Noon explain to your boss, let them tell it to the frontend head

@Cashbee Yeah, I might try that. Even finding the damn "submit" button is hard without properly named button!!!

10:03 AM

@Cashbee Nice :) I assume so you didn't read what I wrote to you on saturday? :P

Problem is fixed for now. I hope they won't find me "this annoying coworker"

10:26 AM

@dhein no, I did not get a notification

@dhein ah that, yes I read that :)

Extroverted Main Man

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Q: How to not be "this annoying nitpicking Quality Engineer"?

I am a 23 years old woman freshly hired in a company (two weeks). As a Q&A engineer, I have and will have to ask developers to change the way they are coding in order to improve code quality, maintainability and testability. Being asked to change their habit isn't something people like and so, t...

work-environment coworkers requests

11:05 AM

@dhein That's a good question (theone under my question) but I don't have time to answer it right now. I hope to be able to do so in two hours

@Noon answers are dropping in!! haha so many devs wanting to answer

@Cashbee Yeah, I am seeing that XD

@Noon Sure thing. I will wait with my answer till you did that. Hope it won't be considered a frame challange, tho. As I have (as allways '^.^) some considerations about the interpersonal impact of asperger taking place in such a role. Despite you didn't make that the frame of your post. So gimme a note here if you prefer that aspect being ignored for my answer.

@Cashbee Ah ok, just wanted to be sure, you are aware of your knowledge of human nature having been praised :P

@dhein hahahah

@dhein I don't see any problem with taking the asperger aspect into account :)

11:50 AM

@Noon You should discuss with the dev teams whether your testing scope includes code quality or just functional aspects. Make sure you are on one line with them.

12:05 PM

@JAD I think most of these aspects are more related to a question fitting for the workplace SE, by having posted it here I'd assume the question is more about addressing the "how" rather than the "what"

Extroverted Main Man

12:19 PM

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Q: Can my sense of common courtesy be considered sexism?

I usually go to work by bus and usually don't care if people enter before I do (unless I'm on a rush), so I just step aside and let people pass. Sometimes there's a lot of people, sometimes just 1 or 2. Last week was just me and another woman waiting for the bus. As the bus stopped, I let her pa...

@ExtrovertedMainMan yes

(jk)

Haven't read it

@dhein not workplace. Either SoftwareDevSE or QA.SE

but the point is, no matter how you bring it, if the devs aren't willing to listen to you about something, it ain't gonna work.

12:49 PM

"because they consider it sexism coming from a man" Actually in my opinion THAT is sexism....

@dhein If you, a man, open a door for me, I will definitively think you are a sexist man who sees me as a fragile creature who can't take care of herself...

@Noon: Would you think the same if it was a women opening you the door? :P

@Noon which is unfair of you to assume that. I see dheins point. It's not his fault that you think he holds doors open only for women

I open the door to whoever's coming

btw the question is primarily opinion based

12:55 PM

@Cashbee Yup, it's closable

@Cashbee What becomes clearly visible, as all the answers dropping in expressing nothing but opinions xD

@dhein I don't know but I would still think it's weird to open a door and not pass it. Passing it and holding it is "usual" but just opening it for me when I definitively able to do it on my own (because my hands are free), is definitively weird, IMO

And I really would love to add my opinion into that, but I keep compsure ^^

Need to go now, big meeting comming

@Noon good luck

12:57 PM

@Noon I agree on that one. But I still think its sexism just to assume, some one does it cause he is a man and you are a women. Hasn't even to be wrong, but still the assumption is the problem IMO.

the IPS phrasing is "How can I reduce the chances of being perceived as sexist, when I do [insert gentleman action here]?"

@Noon Enjoy it(?) ^^

@avazula There were two scenarios, same case but different woman. Scenario was helping to lift the luggage to get it on the bus. One said thanks and other one said no furiously.

When my coworker and I - both male - walk out of the building, the one who's first at the door will pull it open and hold it for the other to go through. then he goes through himself. That is proper door holding etiquette here and has nothing to do with gender

I offer seat on the bus to whoever is in need regardless of their gender.

1:04 PM

What annoys me most about that sexism topic is, there are already so many things I have to consider, what might be ok or not ok social interaction wise. And this is just adding an additional layer of having to consider "does the fact that this person is female change anything about my so far made conclusions?"

I actually feel due to that in my everyday life much more uncomfortable when interacting with a women than I do with a man.

If I know someone closer I dont care about it. And in my spare time its usually people I won't get to know closer.

But specifically at the workplace this is causing me a lot of trouble.

I must say offer help to the person in need regardless of gender.

But first offer the help before doing anything in non-emergency situations.

If they consider it sexism, then let them think that. You shouldn't be bothered about it.

I left a friendly comment, let's see if they edit

Good.

small reminder: please leave a comment when voting to close if there is no such comment yet

I know I forgot too

@AJ Easier said than it is done for someone not being able to read body language and having to rely on guessing or verbal expressions about my actions having been appreciated or unwelcome. >.<

@Cashbee I purposefully didn't, as I would have tried to express my opinion and it took me already a lot to not do that at all. But yeh you are right.

Well, not fully correct. I did express it. But I did it in here '^.^

1:14 PM

in here is fine :D

@dhein I wanted to say something but it's too hard to properly express it in English. Let just say that I won't pitty you for that

(my meeting was postpone for half a hour)

@Noon BTW I often do that still, if I feel uncomfortable with having someone walking behind me. Usually when someone appears to me like walking faster than I do. Then I prefer letting them pass for many diferent reasons. And doing so by opening a door for them and passing after them is one of the ways I came up with working out least weird.

Rather then walking a circle around them to just end up behind them ( I do that sometimes too xD)

@dhein that reminds me of our topvoted question here on IPS but instead of walking behind someone you walk in front of someone and are uncomfortable xD

@dhein If someone is walking faster than you, it a normal thing to just let them pass you. I don't see anything strange in here

@Noon the keyword here is "appears to me"

@Noon And I would appreciate you giving it a try.

1:21 PM

my solution to all those problems: allow only 1 person at a time on each street. create turnstyles on all corners.

can i count on you to vote me president?

@Cashbee Allways and ever

If you want I can also have waterslide-lights installed which also make a boop when the street is empty and the next one ~~can~~ is legally allowed to enter

@dhein I'm a woman, I'm uncomfortable around men because a lot of them are sexist in a lot of subtle and hidden way. When I'm with a man I don't know, I don't know if he will act sexist toward me or not so I always have to be careful. The fact that you are uncomfortable around women because you are afraid to be sexist is, IMO, a good sign, not a bad one

@Noon it's a good sign yes but that is a paradox. It's good that nonsexistmen feel uncomfortable?

sorry for the many pings :S

@Cashbee Where do I sign?

@Cashbee "To make sure you're not oppressive towards anyone, you must feel uncomfortable by the idea of potentially being oppressive" that's terribly sad xD

1:28 PM

@Noon Thanks for clarifying. The way you wrote it first I took some offense. This way, I can emphatize with you. But still, I find it unfair, that I have all this stress with it, if I would rather prefer just behaving equally in pressence of women as of men. But instead I am forced to differentiate between men and women, just to not appear sexist, what per definition is sexism when I differentiate here.

@avazula here (link to a reddit gif - trump makes mistakes when signing papres)

@Cashbee I just realized while writing... yeah its a paradox. I have to be sexist to not appear sexist.

@dhein Or else you could just not care, be yourself, and apologize if someone took offence of your behavior?

@dhein it0s the other way around IMO. in order to be not sexist, you have to think about what a sexist would do.

oof I don't like that line of thought that men should feel on edge around women all the time because they are afraid of being sexist

im not sexist so I am not afraid of suddenly acting as such

1:32 PM

@alex.l Ahah XD Sorry I'm out

and if I do make someone uncomfortable it's because of something else, not my presumptions about women

@alex.l We're all sexist on different levels IMO. Society formats us that way.

@avazula That would work as I mentioned before, in case I was able to send and receive nonverbal messages via bodylanguage or in subtext or that alike. But since in the past it happened to me that people took offense and me not realizing it made things worse, since I couldn't clarify till it was too late, it seems to not work for me just not thinking about it.

@ava

tru

@alex.l Would you have not enrolled on Blender, by your username and way of speaking, I'd have thought you're my partner (I know he's lurking around haha)

1:34 PM

@avazula yep, I wouldn't dare to say I am not sexist, but I don't want to come over as such. probably thats even adding to the problem for me.

... Knowing that I actually AM to some degree...

@dhein I know it's kinda sad but I'd not really trust a man openly saying he's not sexist. Sounds like "I'm not racist! I have a [insert any ethnic minority] friend!" to me ...

@avazula Love that one xD

Usually when a man tells me this it goes like "I'm not sexist but I hate feminists / feminists are the worst / feminists want to turn men into slaves "

that's totally fair haha, I just know myself enough to not be afraid of "being sexist", if that makes sense... like, we don't need to live in fear of being thought of as assholes just because assholes exist

The difficult part of the whole sexism issue is that women are different than men. It's just that some differences are dangerous when generalized (i.e. woman is more emotional than man) and some are less so (i.e. woman is physically weaker than man)

1:37 PM

not to say I don't see room for improvement in my social skills

@alex.l Now you really sound like my SO o_o

just be empathetic and earnest with people you talk to face to face, works for me :)

@Cashbee It's all in the average, at least for the examples you're giving ("women are generally physically weaker than men"). Feminism is truly about getting legal equality between men, women and non-binary people. Sad thing is, it's not how media depict it.

@avazula "I am / I am not ...... BUT..." its a pattern to watch out for '^.^

@dhein Sure haha

I see that my favorite sarcastic person is here. Hi @M.A.R.ಠ_ಠ!

1:41 PM

@alex.l being empathetic, if that was that easy sigh

@dhe

oops sorry... yes it is not easy

but empathy is the most important social skill imo

@alex.l dissclaimer: I have autism. So empathy isn't that easy to "learn" for me.

Ugh, I can't stand my coworkers' passive-agressiveness on each other ...

We struggle on finding an office configuration that'd make us gain work offices, so my manager suggested we ask for works to destroy our 2-3 space offices and make an open-space instead. Now people pro- and against that open space are email-fighting, and it's the worst.

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@Cashbee God you've TFGITWed me

1:48 PM

@avazula harahr

flag-pls close-pls | (Dupe(s), "what should i do?") | interpersonal.stackexchange.com/q/20131/4550

@avazula an edit would suffice. just remove the should i

@Cashbee Still dupes ... ?

@avazula oh. yes

@dhein sorry!

1:50 PM

@Cashbee Plus I couldn't easily edit their question unless I just removed the whole paragraph and put the question in title instead

voted on a dupe of your second link in comments

@Cashbee K. Thanks pal

@Cashbee Why does listening to "Herbalist" makes me thinking of you? ._.

haha

@avazula Hi

It's just what the "rejoin favorite rooms" does

@alex.l NP, just had to add on it.

@M.A.R.ಠ_ಠ Yay, we're one of your favs!

We don't deserve your kindness

1:57 PM

I'm too busy to visit :(

@M.A.R.ಠ_ಠ D:

I read that "we don't deserve your kidneys"

lol

Well, kidney 1 and 2 are all yours

You seem to be enclined to seeing kidneys everywhere lately haha

1:58 PM

But I can't seem to reach out to them, hang on

Kidney 3 stays

is this before or after the accident

@avazula Well, when it's what I dream of . . .

After the accident. Wait what accident?

@M.A.R.ಠ_ಠ I get that :) I was just joking. Feel free to tell me if you think my humor is bad haha

@M.A.R.ಠ_ಠ BOOM

gotcha

sorry, v slow day at work

Shit, that was the accident

2:01 PM

@alex.l Welcome onboard. Technically I finished my work for the day at 12:30

I didn't blow up though

So it's OK

Unless it was kittens blowing up

Now I'm picturing a kittens explosion

Darn it

@Cashbee: I just went out for a vape. When I came back in in the stair case there was a women and I approaching at almost the same time. I was a little ahead. The moment I reached the door, I just stopped and considered if it actually was appropriate opening the door. It took me like 2 seconds to conclude: "It would be weird just staying here and not opening the door" But before I was able to act on that conclusion, she already opened the door herself and just gave me a mad(?) look.

Thats why I hate thinking too much about it xD

Blame it on mismanagement and fire fighters

@dhein o_o that was a tricky one, I shall admit

2:03 PM

@dhein ouch

@dhein I mean what if there was a corrupt intelligence agent with a silencer waiting behind the door?

@dhein I know that you know this, and I know it won't help even a bit when I say it, but.. You're overthinking it too much

@M.A.R.ಠ_ಠ ^ in that case you were just being careful then

stop giving so many ducks

@Cashbee aaw, that's so cute!

2:05 PM

Better safe than sorry making an action movie

@Cashbee As said, you are a genious regarding knowledge of human nature ^^

@Cashbee ducks?

Overthinking is waaay overthought of

@dhein d f

I can give you ducks

'^.^

2:06 PM

I am indoors and pets are unsanitary

user image

@Cashbee I would love to. >.<

@M.A.R.ಠ_ಠ You're the unsanitary one. How dare you critisizing pets?

Well I am out herefor now. TTYL

@dhein enjoy your day pal

2:08 PM

@dhein I have been a thinker all my life. I have always felt like a half-autist of some sort if that makes sense. I don't actually think I am but I think I know a bit how you feel

@dhein wait, let me open the door for you

..half autist .. face palm that sounds so wrong

i think I'm somewhere on the very low end of the spectrum

@Cashbee You may be a "high potential" person as well. That'd make sense considering your description

@avazula high potential? i like the sound of it :D

@Cashbee Lemme find an English link

You'd have to know me very well IRL to know I'm autistic, as I look very sociable at first glance.

Consequences of mimetism, cameleon behavior and a terrible need of acceptation ^^

@avazula GEEERMZ

Of course, "high potential" refers to work productivity ... How surprising, England

2:13 PM

I have high potential too. For mayhem. And bureaucracy. Chemistish.

@avazula maybe youre looking for "highly functional"

@Cashbee i'm looking

@dhein i just open the door for everyone

High-functioning autism

High-functioning autism (HFA) is a term applied to people with autism who are deemed to be cognitively "higher functioning" (with an IQ of 70 or greater) than other people with autism. Individuals with HFA or Asperger syndrome may exhibit deficits in areas of communication, emotion recognition and expression, and social interaction. HFA is not a recognized diagnosis in the DSM-5 or the ICD-10. The amount of overlap between HFA and Asperger syndrome is disputed. == Characterization == High-functioning autism is characterized by features very similar to those of Asperger syndrome. The defi...

erring on the side of politeness

2:14 PM

@Cashbee In case you're able to auto-translate it, this one is gold

I am the youngest at my workplace though

so it's also sort of expected I think(?)

@Cashbee Yea, but this one makes autism part of the equation, which may not be the case (my mother is highly functional but isn't autistic)

@Cashbee This one's a Swiss link, maybe there's a German version?

I feel like it's better to just have a reputation as being polite to everyone, then it's expected behavior and no one is weirded out

@avazula I'll read both in a bit. thanks

btw sorry if I sound like I am pontificating when I speak, I only mean to give my honest opinion

I definitely have much to learn

I stress really hard in some social situations at work

2:19 PM

@alex.l It's nice to have your insight :)

Extroverted Main Man

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Q: Using a single Social Media Personality to communicate with multiple audiences

Not sure if this is exactly the place to post this, but it was suggested from a previous site I asked on. So I'm a blogger and amateur photographer with a number of varied interests, one of which is not social media, so I'm not too available on them at the moment, which I'm looking to change. S...

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Q: How to salvage a potential relationship and find out what went wrong?

I've been dating a girl for a few weeks now and it seemed like she really liked me. We always have a lot of fun together and in the last few weeks we have cuddled at her house, as well as my house. Both of us are in our mid-20's so it's not like we're naive about relationships. The last time we ...

whoa whoa main man relax

take it eeeeeeeeaaasyyyy

2:33 PM

@ava linkedin.com/pulse/… yah I probably am

this blogpost is totally about me

@Cashbee Well, then welcome to the zebra community pal!

One more zebra in this chat ^^

We're at least half of dozen ...

@Cashbee you are a high-potential child?

(sorry)

I do think it's weird to treat these "high-potential" children too differently, and I know a lot of people who suffered because they thought they were too smart for XYZ

taking it to the extreme here, but I knew of someone who went to my university at age 14 (before my time)

that's exploitation IMO

@alex.l It's extremely frequent in some countries. In mine, atypical people are under diagnosed (I learnt about my autism and high potential at age 22) are treated like freaks

@alex.l that's ... quite young, for sure

people worry what to expect from their children too much I think

in the wrong way, I mean

@Cashbee Interesting

Extroverted Main Man

2:50 PM

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Q: How to say NO to a family member request about taking care of her child?

Some background: I have this family member who lives 30 minutes ride away from me. She has a full time job and her mother takes care of her 6 year old child during the day, while she is at work. The "taking-care" in this case is mainly taking the child to school. Public transportation to school i...

family southern-europe

@alex.l no offense taken 😀 I can laugh about myself

and about good jokes as yours haha

@Cashbee ah, a meta-joke

I laugh more at my jokes than everyone else put together, alas

Ooh nice new pic Ava!

@scohe001 you nice pic

@avazula no you!

3:27 PM

:D

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@scohe001 you nice

3:44 PM

@avazula lol is the next one just going to be "you"?

@scohe001 you

politeness fight!! dundundundudududundundun

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Ahhhh!

How's Ava-land been?

@scohe001 I published a website o/

Ooh! What'd you use to build it?

3:46 PM

And published a bunch of articles on my blog while semi-drunk. Weird how alcohol affects writing

@scohe001 Usual sh*t, Bootstrap and stuff. I took a chance at php and almost instantly regretted it, so I used a Google App Script to handle my email backend instead.

@scohe001 How is it going for you pal?

Oh, and I'm still an aircraft.

Daily life going on

@avazula haha articles about programming? Life? The interesting effects of alcohol on writing?

@avazula There's an email backend?? O_O what's the site do?

@scohe001 How great idea the last one is!

@scohe001 See for yourself

@scohe001 I may say stupid stuff, I'm no web programmer

@avazula life is pretty good over here. My coworker invited me to join his indoor soccer (football) team and I learned how out of shape I am. And Super Smash Bro.'s comes out on Thursday night!

@scohe001 Neat! Is Texas good to you?

Yeaaaaah! Video games!

I don't play but I love the culture

@avazula That switching gradient on the "back to home" button is 😍😍😍

3:52 PM

@scohe001 Hehehe. Bootstrap is amazing :D

@avazula Texas has been cold to me. But the people out here have been really awesome! Been making a lot of friends and learning some fun new stuff. What about you? How's the new job treating you?

@scohe001 Oh right, that must've been a real change from CA! I'm glad to know you're getting to now cool people :)

@avazula haha the culture is a leetle crazy. One of my friends is leaving his door unlocked all weekend so we can come and play as often as we want. He'll have 7 TV's setup so all 20 of us can play :p

I'd ... rather not say anything about the job ^^

@avazula Oof :/ the soon-to-be-hubby is good tho?

3:54 PM

Although I'm starting to think it's okay that I'm bored and don't like it, at least I get paid, do my job well so people don't complain, and have time to learn new IT skills

@scohe001 That's so cool that he could leave the door open! Although ... 7 TVs?? o_o

@avazula I like the upbeat attitude! As long as you keep pushing yourself to learn knew things and not get stagnant even if the job does, you'll still have opportunities!

@scohe001 He's really good. We're in a much better place now :)

@avazula haha there's 20 people! We need that many TV's and systems so we can all play together!! Usually a few of the guys will bring their own. I don't think my friend has 7 himself...

Oh, and I lost 17 of the 44 pounds I gained from inappropriate medication

@Cashbee Well I find that twrm more fitting than you might think. But I usually tempt to say „having symptoms from the spectrum“^^ Well, yeh thanks for your.... empathy?^^

3:56 PM

@scohe001 Huh, that's reassuring then :)

How is it going with Ms Scohe?

@avazula Congrats!!! Lil' Miss Ava is kicking butt at the gym lol you'll be a force to be reckoned with

@avazula Same for me. It is so annoying, as better knowers allways want to teach me that I can‘t have autism as I am so social.... urgh... as if they knew me better than I do >.>

@scohe001 Meet me after 9 hours of workoffice passive-agressiveness and I'm unbreakable xD

@avazula Misscohe is dying from med school lol she just had a huge exam yesterday so she spent last night sitting on the couch doing absolutely nothing for once haha she needed it

@scohe001 Ha, that's sometimes needed! Do you guys live together?

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@avazula oh gosh. I hope I never get on your bad side O_o

@dhein Yeah, that's the worst ...

@scohe001 You normally wouldn't. I'm a nice ~~person~~ aircraft, I'm no bite :p

@avazula Yea! We moved in when we moved out to Texas, so it's been a few months now. But since she spends so much time being really quiet and studying she's the perfect roommate

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