So now I will redeclare my question: If mu is the coefficient of friction between 2 objects, and one object has an arbitrarily large mass (like the floor or the earth), the maximum static friction is F_max=mu*N. So far so good.
Assuming there are 2 stacked objects with the same mass, and the bottom one's friction to the floor is 0. When we drag the upper object to a side with a force of F_max,
the object still has a positive net acceleration to the ground, but with the same acceleration as the bottom object. The equation F_ext-F_max=0 still holds but 0 is not the net force of the upper object.
Assuming there are 2 stacked objects with the same mass, and the bottom one's friction to the floor is 0. When we drag the upper object to a side with a force of F_max,
the object still has a positive net acceleration to the ground, but with the same acceleration as the bottom object. The equation F_ext-F_max=0 still holds but 0 is not the net force of the upper object.