@amWhy if you could just read your own comments with a clear mind, you would see that any person would conclude exactly what i concluded upon reading them
you accused people of "enabling", of "ingratiating themselves"
so either you are lying, which is not very nice of you, or you are not lying, in which case you do presume to know their motives
if you don't think they meant to do what they did, there's no reason to be hostile towards them, you can calmly point out that what they did has undesirable consequences instead of being condescending towards these people
@amWhy i don't care if you upset me or not, i am not sure why you would think that i care about that
i do care, however, about the fact that you are acting in a spirit which is almost entirely contrary to what you promote on your profile page