@MonicaCellio Re:
this answer of yours, I recall that at my college graduation, I paid attention to what the Christian minister who delivered the invocation said, to determine what my attitude should be to it. She never said "Jesus," I expect out of intended ecumenicism, but there was a part where she identified God as "God who
this, God who
that," etc. for various values of
this and
that. When she got to "God who suffered," ...