I'm glad I found this chat. balanced mama's conversation was less than helpful with me as she came across as making up her own rules, so I reported her to SE. Had I known that this was a unanimous decision of the moderators and not her own rule making, I would have approached the situation differently.
Also, Torben's suggestion of simply approaching me before editing would have been appreciated and much less confrontational.
Now, if I may: balanced mama has given medical advice of "wait until it happens again b/c Dr's can't diagnose based on symptoms alone" and "perhaps you should see a…