You don't want for $K^{\prime}$ to satisfy the universal property. You want to say you have a filtered map $k^{\prime}\colon K^{\prime}\rightarrow M$ s.t. $uk^{\prime}=0$, then you obtain a unique map $z\colon K^{\prime}\rightarrow\ker(u)$ of modules s.t. $z$ collowed by the canonical inclusion $\ker(u)\rightarrow M$ equals $k^{\prime}$.
all that's left to do is observe that $z$ is automatically filtered, because the filtration on $\ker(u)$ is obtained from the filtration on $M$ by restriction and $k^{\prime}$ was a filtered map to begin with.