@Ted Here is an interesting POV from their book: Suppose $\Sigma = \{\Sigma_i : i \in I\}$ is a stratification of $M$, where $M$ is real analytic and the strata $\Sigma_i \subset M$ are subanalytic. Let $X := \bigsqcup T^*_{\Sigma_i} M$ ($T^*_S M$ is my notation for conormal bundle of $S$ in $M$). Suppose for any pair of sequences $\{(x_n, \xi_n)\}, \{(y_m, \eta_m)\} \in X$ such that
(a) $\lim x_n = \lim y_m = x$
(b) $\lim \xi_n = \lim \eta_m = \xi$ and
(c) $\lim |x_n - y_n||\xi_n| = 0$,
we have $(x, \xi) \in X$.