$f: \mathbb R^n\times \mathbb R^m\to \mathbb R^p$ is bilinear. Then $\lim_{(h,k)\to (0,0)} \frac{|f(h,k)|}{|(h,k)|}$ is to be calculated.
We have $|f(h,k)|=|f(\sum_{i=1}^nh_ie_i, \sum_{j=1}^mk_ie_i')|=|\sum_{i=1,j=1}^{i=n,j=m}h_ik_jf(e_i,e_j')|\le \color{blue}{\max\{|f(e_i,e_j)|, 1\le i\le n, 1\le j\le m\}}|\sum_{i=1,j=1}^{i=n,j=m}h_ik_j|$
So $|f(h,k)|\le \color{blue}M |\sum_{i=1,j=1}^{i=n,j=m}h_ik_j|\le M\sqrt{\sum h_i^2}\sqrt{\sum_j k_j^2}\le M(\sum_{i=1}^nh_i^2+\sum_{j=1}^m k_j^2)$
$|(h,k)|=\sqrt{|h|^2+|k|^2}=\sqrt{\sum_{i=1}^nh_i^2+\sum_{j=1}^m k_j^2}$, using $l_2$ norm. Therefore, …