Apparently, every $R$-module $M$ is the quotient of a free module. The proof has been skipped in my notes. So if $F(S)$ denotes the free module generated by the set $S$, we define a map $f: F(M) \to M$ as $$v=(0, \dots, 0, 1, 0, \dots, 0) \mapsto m$$ where the vector $v$ is one at coordinate $m$ and zero otherwise and $$(0, 0, \dots, 0) \mapsto 0$$
Then by the first isomorphism theorem, $M \cong F(M) / ker(f)$ since $f$ is surjective. So far so good.
What disturbs me is that I think the kernel of $f$ is $0$. Something is wrong here.