So, let's ask a new question:
Is the limit of $(4,4.9,4.99,4.999,\dots)$ equal to $5$? Let's see if we can use our definitions.
That's the same as asking of $(5,5,5,5,\dots)$ and $(4,4.9,4.99,4.999,\dots)$ have the same limit, by our last thing
And, that's the same as asking if their difference, $(1,0.1,0.01,0.001,\dots)$, has limit zero (by our definition of when two sequences of numbers have the same limit).
And that's the same as asking the following: If you give me any positive rational, call it $\epsilon$, will I be able to give you a place in that sequence (call it the $N$th place) such that, from the $N$th place onwards, everything in that sequence has absolute value less than $\epsilon$?
(Note that the "absolute value" part here is irrelevant since they're all positive. I just need the things to be less than $\epsilon$.)
For example, as previously noted, if $\epsilon=\frac1{10}$, then $N=2$.
, since $0.01$, the second number in the sequence, is less than $\epsilon$, and so is everything after it.