Yes, exactly, I was trying to ensure that specifically with that tangled group I invented. Though, hmmmm, dihedral group you say? Do I want odd or even rotations?
Actually, Leaky, if that's true, I could just require that $a^3=1$ and force $\langle a\rangle$ to not be normal. Though, I'm not sure. Shouldn't it be $b^{-1}a^nb=a^m$? It doesn't have to go to the generator after conjugation, necessarily, does it?