claims:
1. if (a,b1) and (a,b2) are in the set, then b1=b2
2. if (a1,b) and (a2,b) are in the set, then a1=a2
3. the set exhausts either all of A or all of B
4. in the first case, it is an injection A->B with connected image
5. in the second case, its inverse is an injection B->A with connected image