I doubt having isolated fixed point implies yes. What if I take R^2 and a diffeomorphism fixing the origin which sends x-axis to the parabola y = x^2? I feel like that should be cookupable
Arnaud Mortier's comment's suggestion should be false
@MikeMiller @TedShifrin @BalarkaSen I was just given the following counterexample: $X:=\{ (x,y)\in \mathbb{R}^2\mid x\geq0,y=x^2 \}\cup\{ (x,y)\in \mathbb{R}^2\mid x\geq0,y=2x^2 \}$ in which case $T_p X=0$ yet $V=\{(x,y)\mid y=0\}$.
@TedShifrin in this case $\pi_V$ is also not a local homeo at the origin... Are you saying the first condition is bad or the second one? The second one I hope.
@BalarkaSen @TedShifrin exactly - my point is that a "wrong dimensional" tangent set should reflect whether or not something is a manifold, no?
That is why I don't understand why @TedShifrin prefers the second notion to the first - the second fails to detect the singular point in the example I was given.
@TedShifrin another thing which bugs me is how to get a local homeomorphism between a neighborhood of $p$ in the tangent space and a neighborhood of $p$ in $X$ given the first condition holds.