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A: Meaning of the following statement in a situation

cucumber_boyThis sounds more like personal advice which person A is trying to give you. From my perspective it seems that she is trying to convince you to let go of something which you hold against someone for what they have done to you or a person who you care about. I feel that if she was hurt by your act...

I agree @VictorBazarov I interpreted this question the way I would if someone told me what Person A had said. I would assume that they are trying to give me some life advice but this could very well not be the case depending on what the context is(Did I do something wrong? Did I have a fight with Person A?, etc).
It is being told my ex-HR, we have very good relationship, but once she have done something wrong to me, may be under pressure of management, so I just call her and remind this thing like 1 yr ago you have done this kind of thing to me, and her response is something like this.
@KaranGandhi I think she is trying to tell you to let go of what happened. Just to be clear, you called her and reminded her of what happened a year ago and then she made her statement, correct?
I was afraid if she is get hurt by my act or angry on me, else I am very much okay.
After this statement she speak like, "Help urself first. let go everything and u will be peaceful rather than sitting and accusing and blaming thinking about it everytime"
@KaranGandh I don't think she would be hurt or angry, but she might be a little upset if you brought up something that happened a year ago. I have edited my answer, please mark it as accepted if it answers your question :)
16:15
I worried because I consider her like my sister and she also consider me as her bro
it really matter to me
Oh, so did you bring this issue up a year after it happened?
just we are chatting and i just recall so bring into discussion
i really dont want her to hurt
I don't think you did, it really sounds like she was trying to tell you to let go of what happened.
okay
thanks
You can apologize for bringing it up and say you forgive her for whatever happened.
16:17
okay
Does that answer your question?
yeah
I am accepting
after readin it
Alright, thank you.
Hope I helped you
Alright, I'm leaving the chat then
Thank you for accepting my answer, hope I helped you
16:20
thanks for your help
accepted and 1+ also
You guys figure it out yet?
nt yet
will have word tomorrow
Karan, I may be too cynical from other bad experiences in my life... What she is talking about is the concept of 'karma', I suppose.
Yet something tells me she does not believe in it. If she did, she'd be the first to apologize for whatever wrong you think she did.
On the other hand, there is a saying in Western culture, "if a man knows that the woman is wrong, he should ask her forgiveness".
Good luck to you!
she has apologized in past for her deeds
..and you didn't accept? That's why you brought it up again?
16:33
I just bring this into discussion
I already forgive her
I think you should tell her that. Perhaps she didn't fully realize that.
In any case, your question was more about relationships than English... It's OK, though. :-)
I guess I should tell her like I forgive you guys for bad things you have done with, If I hurt u by mistake and also forgive me, have a great life ahead good bue
It's not a bad idea to say you're sorry more than you think you should. We don't say "sorry" enough in our lives...
<thumbs up>
16:39
She: Karan if u really care then you should have moved on rather than going on and on everytime.
rather you just start some topic or the other every time of the past.
Help urself first. let go everything and u will be peaceful
rather than sitting and accusing and blaming thinking about it everytime
Me: k my dear. will try
She: thanks have a gud day bye
Me: have gud day bye
This is our last discussion today
now what can I say
pls advice

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