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7:23 AM
@Snow Whats the winterbash leaderboard?
@RichardU Told you it was another 100+ answer coming up :)
 
Ummm.. It's basically a leaderboard for the winterbash hats. People with the most WB specific hats are at the top.
 
8:19 AM
Trying too hard? :)
 
 
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9:53 AM
Hello. My company is going through a merger process, and European Commission appointed trustees will monitor our work starting in January. I'd like to ask a question along the lines of 'Working with a trustee over your shoulder, what is it like?' but it seems a bit subjective. Any ideas on how to improve the question?
 
It seems fine, but the answer is likely to be "ask your manager" as the remit for these auditors/overseers is going to be specific for your company/role.
For example, are they just going to be watching you work, or will you need to explain and justify your every action?
 
The thing is, nobody knows. That is exactly the question, are they going to watch me work in the office, are they just going to be in their offices, reading reports we send them, etc.
 
The only person that can really answer this is your manager. There has to be something at the start of this process that defines how this is going to work and what the expectations are on both sides. Otherwise, it'll just be meaningless chaos.
 
I am already quite high up the ladder, and I don't have a clue. I have coffee with my manager and his manager every morning, and they are either excellent liars, or as in the dark as we all are. I had in mind an 'experience sharing' question
 
10:10 AM
@Maxime there's certain defined roles and responsibilities for the Trustee and what they will be looking at
presumably your company is the "Divestment business" for purposes of this?
 
And I am certain they will be communicated soon, the issue is the uncertainty in my team between now and soon
 
Yeah, sometimes management don't know stuff either. We currently have three consultancy firms working with us and it's very difficult to know the what/why/how of each of them.
 
Both, my team is split in half. I will remain in the 'principal' business, and a sizable chunk of my team will be in the divested business
 
without boring you to tears with dry bureaucratic lingo the plain english version of what they are there to do is to make sure that the business is being operated in a way that the divested business isn't being operated in a way as to sabotage it's value
 
This I have been told
The question is are they going to be in my office watching over my shoulder, or are they just going to check our calendars, maybe read a few mails, etc.
 
10:17 AM
@Maxime depends on your role
the other big responsibility the monitoring trustee has is to make sure that confidential information isn't retained by principal, that networks are seperated etc
so if you're role involves dealing with sensitive commercial information of the divested business or if you're in the IT then they are going to be (or should be) paying close attention
and I'd expect that to take the form of monitoring of e-mail accounts etc
similarly if you are in accounting/finance then they'll be keeping a watchful eye on transactions etc
it's not really going to be an over-the-shoulder situation - more a "give them access to things and answer any queries" scenario
 
Moto you really suit that hat, it brings out your eyes
 
@Twyxz why thank you.. yours really compliments your smile :D
 
@motosubatsu Honestly, you're not the first person to tell me what.
 
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10:39 AM
@Snow don't leave me alone with him!
 
10:50 AM
@motosubatsu Don't leave me alone with me!
 
@Twyxz <...steps backwards out of the room, quietly closes the door...>
 
@Twyxz
<...steps backwards out of the room, quietly closes the door...>
Help. I'm being followed
 
 
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1:46 PM
Ah, nobody is ever here when I am.
@Twyxz it's up to 400+ now.

I never know when an answer is going to go up like that. It seems when I just simply blurt out what I'm thinking, it's well received, most of the time.
 
2:12 PM
What's with all the America bashing as of late?
 
I'm still here
 
2:27 PM
@Twyxz yeah, you were right about that answer hitting the stratosphere. I never know when one will
 
It's just based off how quickly the question becomes upvoted. If it's quick HNQ takes over and based off the title it was too clickbait to not be a success
and since you were already top voted answer at the time it's a given
 
@Twyxz there are quite a few times when my answers just take off, and leave others in the dust, even when HNQ never does.
@IDrinkandIKnowThings G'day! How's life treating you?
@Twyxz the odd thing is that it's usually the snarky ones that go up like a rocket ship. That's why Kilisi is where he is as well.
 
Yeah the blunt answers always win
my top ones are either obvious or blunt
 
if you can be blunt with out being cruel then i agree those are good answers.
 
2:46 PM
@IDrinkandIKnowThings sure, if you want to take all the fun out of it ;)
@Twyxz I think what leads to HNQ in many instances is a question where the OP's wisdom is shown to be somewhat lacking, with an answer that opens up a can of whoopass on the OP.
 
We do not like fun at SE. Thats why we have hats in the holiday season. Because hats are not fun.
 
3:12 PM
Do I have a hat on? Or am I holding a hat?
 
@IDrinkandIKnowThings Happiness is VERBOTEN unless mandatory
I have waffles over Don Quixote as he's tilting at windmills. I think I win the award for absolute chaos.
 
@RichardU I find our weekly beatings to be very inspiring
 
@IDrinkandIKnowThings there seems to be a schizophrenic mood whiplash between benign neglect, and rigid control that would embarrass Mussolini
 
4:17 PM
Hello folks.
I am one month away from increment, just this week left in hols. should i remind my manager about it?
so it doesn't get pushed into feb
 
@Nofel yes, but do so casually, and gratz!
 
thanks @RichardU
but how do I do causally?
 
@Nofel "Wow, I've been here for "X" long, I'm really looking forward to my increment next month!"
 
shld I add "the contract said X months after"
we got email and chat as well? when u say causal. chat?
 
@Nofel face to face is always best. That way, you can tell your manager how much you enjoy your position, and that the pay rise comes at a great time.
In other words, the point is to mention it without mentioning it.
 
4:33 PM
and mentioning your contract makes it more of the mentioning it to make a point, which is what you want to avoid.
 
@IDrinkandIKnowThings that line made me confused ^
 
IMO keep your mouth shut until it is time, then ask directly about it. Hey when i signed on we agreed to do a review, do you have time for that in the next few days.
@Nofel what are you confused about
 
@IDrinkandIKnowThings "and mentioning your contract makes it more of the mentioning it to make a point, which is what you want to avoid."
 
Richard is saying you want to approach it in an indirect manner. Mentioning the contract is a more direct method.
 
ok, thanks.
 
4:59 PM
@Nofel I have learned to be very nuanced when I need to be. That's what that book "Brag" teaches as well. You don't want to say "I'm great", you want to say "Wow, I'm excited that I was able to save the company 1 million last year".
 
Directness expectations may vary by company culture. Either way, mentioning the contract runs the risk of sounding like a demand.
 
well he might laugh it off thinking it is everyday talk
e.g. they go to lunch in expensive place. I go for 1 $ shop. We go together but I say I am sticking to X.
@RichardU now a days I am listening to "The chimp paradox"
very good book. I have to buy paperback.
 
@Nofel I'm reading Jordan Peterson's 12 rules for life right now. Now that I am finally out of survival mode, I have to get on with this business of actually living life.
 
I shall read it. ur advice are invaluable
although I want to read Robin Sharma's The 5 am club. I so want to wake up before sunrise but my "monkey" is too clever to tell me "go back, its dark and scary"
 
@RichardU the "doing my job too well?" question? Yeah I didn't bother answering that one as my answer was almost guaranteed to get me a metric ton's worth of abuse
 
5:15 PM
hey @motosubatsu stranger
long time pal
 
@motosubatsu now I'm curious, what would you have said.
My opinion is that the manager was an idiot, didn't get buy-in from his superiors, put no insurances in place, and is now looking for a scapegoat
 
Have a good evening/day folks.
c ya
 
@RichardU Fundamentally that the guy didn't "do his job too well" - he took one problem and turned it into a larger one. Basically an anesthetist solving the possibility of intra-operative awareness by putting patients into a coma for several days instead
I do agree that the manager should be carrying the lions share of the responsibility (and blame)
but the OP clearly didn't think it through
 
@motosubatsu I'd agree with you except for the fact that the OP never did anything like this before. Now, under normal circumstances, I'd be lambasting the OP with my usual snark. But, in this one instance, it sounds to me like the OP was asked to do something outside of his job description, and took the specs literally.
@motosubatsu the manager bears the brunt because this was an employee who was not a trainer by nature, but a gamer. Everything you say is technically correct, but the fact that this guy was working out of title, with what seems to be little or no direction other than to make the training fun and to raise scores.
Given those parameters, it was a wild success.
 
@RichardU I agree to a certain extent..but anyone who has spent more than 5 seconds learning about game design (and remember the OP describes themselves as amateur game designer) should understand the point of a public leader board in a game without hard replay limits
@RichardU agreed.. which is why the manager is primarily at fault, I just can't bring myself to think the OP is totally not at fault when they failed to apply any of their own common sense
If you sent the most junior of office juniors out with the instruction to "buy some milk" you'd expect them to be able to apply some level of reasoning to how much milk
 
5:30 PM
@motosubatsu maybe, but it still got past his manager. Plus, this was his first stab at something like this. I wouldn't go to hard on him, even if I were the manager, I'd be blaming myself. I think it's more of a case of Gone horribly right than anything else.
 
if they turned up with a tanker full of the stuff is it completely the manager's fault for not specifying exact quantities
 
@motosubatsu Well, if the manager said go out and get some milk, we're having a big breakfast meeting and he brings back 10 gallons because he assumes breakfast means cereal and not just coffee....
 
@motosubatsu come on a tanker of milk seems a bit of a stretch as an acceptable interpretation
 
@RichardU it's 60-40 the manager's fault IMO, and I wouldn't be going too hard on the guy..but I would be expecting him to learn where he went wrong
 
@RichardU even worst case there the total damage is $20-30
 
5:33 PM
@motosubatsu my break would be 90-10, because the guy has no professional experience with either gaming or training. Put someone with zero experience in a position, then get mad when something goes wrong... nah.
 
@IDrinkandIKnowThings well it was partly reductio ad absurdum but it depends how much "skimming through the courses in 10 mins" was costing the company in lost productivity vs how much it's costing them in the man days where people are excessively playing the game
 
@motosubatsu ohh its that question. Yeah that question is troubling
 
@IDrinkandIKnowThings I think it's a massive overreaction from upper management as well. If I were in upper management, I'd be more interested in how we could profit from something that became a wildly popular hit. Chalk up any lost time under "lesson's learned", add a time limit, and move on.
 
@RichardU if the guy had never designed or written a game before I'd agree completely with a 90/10 split, but even an amateur should have known better
 
@motosubatsu perhaps, but you don't want to kill talent in it's infancy.
 
5:37 PM
@RichardU i put 100% of my money on this is a made up story, or at least they are leaving some key element out of the story... like the OP was never instructed to create a game and just took it on themselves.
 
@RichardU wildly popular vs doing office work (especially when you can reasonably dissemble that you were doing "work") is a whole different thing from something you could make money out of
 
@IDrinkandIKnowThings you're likely right. But it has been my great misfortune to have been exposed to some of the most aberrant workplace behaviors imaginable, so I find it hard to dismiss anything out of hand.
 
@RichardU agreed.. and clearly he has some burgeoning talent, whether it's of any use in his current role, don't know
@IDrinkandIKnowThings I did detect a whiff of "I'm looking for sympathy and for people to tell me how big a dick my employer is", a faint one true, but present.
 
If the story is a true one, this hotshot should be guided into the right career path.
but again, people embellish
 
@RichardU When ever an OP shines the light on how great they are and how horrible they are being treated I want to throw a flag on the play. Especially when the results are beyond any resonable expectations.
 
5:40 PM
@IDrinkandIKnowThings fair enough, LOL!
But by the same token, "Tall poppy syndrome" is a thing.
 
@RichardU depends entirely on the nature of the employing business, to use another, somewhat absurd example you could have an employee write the next Angry Birds for you in this sort of scenario but if you aren't even remotely close to that sector business wise it's like giving a Ferrari to a kitten
 
@motosubatsu then I'd considering pouring through my linkedin contacts to see who needs a Ferrari, and what they'd be willing to pay.
@IDrinkandIKnowThings Like I said though, I've seen some grandmaster dickery in my day, including a man fired for doing his job to well. Yes, really. He had two managers go to his boss and praise him for doing such a great job. He was fired, the union got him his job back for wrongful termination. From that day on, he never stayed one second past quitting time, never did anything beyond his job description for anyone, and never did one iota of work more than was required.
 
@RichardU which is possible.. but a) you're going to need the experience to realize what you've got (a kitten can't tell a Ferrari's value from a Trebant) and b) have some contacts. Say our firm (kitten) worked in.. oil and gas. How many of their contacts are likely to know any more about said Ferrari then they do?
 
@motosubatsu I think my experiences are a bit different than most, because I do know people from all walks of life. I'd be able to network the folks together in about ten minutes.
 
@RichardU I'm reasonably similar in that I've worked in very disparate industries, but a senior manager at say an oil and gas company is likely to know (professionally speaking) a great many people in oil and gas and f-k all else
 
5:49 PM
@motosubatsu LOL, I know several CEOs who would use me as the intermediary. :D But, it is rare, I agree.
 
And that's even before you factor in that something like flash game would likely be translated into a mobile game (if it were being commercialized) and 99.99999999999999999999999999% of those that try that fail, even those made by people who do know the industry
 
6:24 PM
@motosubatsu so argument there.
 
7:08 PM
Hey I have a good one there, a friend were inteviewing candidates, fresh out from school. In the middle of the interview, he passed on the hobby part of the CV, a club of music. So he try to pursue there, the candidate detailled that it's a "fart music club" and he had the honor of a live demonstration. Sometimes I wonder how they filter candidates out of school, he got quite some cases but I think this one is really the best he got.
 
7:26 PM
@Walfrat my manager at a previous job had a guy break down in the middle of the interview, start ranting, and eventually stormed off saying "I'm not going to waste any more of your time". The interview was with my team lead in the next cube. I was actually scared of what this guy might do.
 
7:49 PM
wow, there sure are some story on interviews:x
 
@Walfrat half the stuff I don't even talk about. nobody would believe me.
 
8:01 PM
Well sometimes I find my life boring, but I feel like it's better to have people tell about it than being there :x
 
@Walfrat Boredom is God's way of telling you that you have no pressing issues.
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well in my case it's more like than I don't know what to do or where I'm going, or if I'am even going anywhere but hey maybe I'll find next year, things are moving very slowly
 
8:19 PM
@Walfrat well, that's not a bad thing, it gives you time to think
 

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