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Q: Why was my answer removed without a reason?

CheronaYesterday, I answered a question on https://ell.stackexchange.com/, however, today when I look at my answer it says it has been removed by this user https://ell.stackexchange.com/users/230/snailcar I would like to know why my answer was removed, as I believe it answered the question when no-one ...

 
user352498
Excuse me, can I speak "be to do 1, do 2" in English? are there any mistakes in grammar?
 
user352498
For example: "biggest things you have to do is to do1, do2"
 
5:52 PM
@HumanKyte You can, but don’t have to use the second “to”, for example, The most important things you have to do today are call your friend, take out the trash, and count your blessings.
Or you could write The most important things you have to do today are to call your friend, take out the trash, and count your blessings.
Also, The most important thing IS or The most important things ARE
 
user352498
6:26 PM
OK
 
10:19 PM
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A: Can I use "You can" rather than "Could you" in restaurants?

Charles HudginsAs others have pointed out, the phrasing absolutely will come across as extremely rude and a bit non sequitur. More importantly, you should never deduct from a server's tip for bad service in the United States. In the US servers are not paid minimum wage. They only make above minimum wage as a ...

I don't think this is an actual answer. It doesn't address the "can/could" question posted by the OP
despite having garnered six upvotes so far
 
AIQ
10:34 PM
You're right Eddie Kal. Perhaps it garnered those votes because the answerer talks about the "right" thing to do - to never deduct any amount from the tip.
But it's totally irrelevant. It might work as a comment - but I, for one, think that it isn't a place to comment on the morality of something (giving tips).
If I answered the question and I wanted to be a dik, I would have said "Yes, you can." OP asked in the title *Can I use “You can” rather than “Could you” in restaurants?
Sure you can say "You can ...", but then be ready to be frowned upon, or worse ... The question should be something like this: Is it considered rude or ill-mannered to say 'you can' rather than ... in restaurants?
But why am I being nit-picky? ooopppsss
 
11:01 PM
Well said!
Customs vary across countries, but American arrogance stays strong. The question doesn't even mention "American English" or "dining in the U.S."
 
11:29 PM
Yeah, but the question isn't really asking about that. It should be closed. It's a contextless question that should be on IP...something.SE.
The answer-seeker is saying "Why should I care how I talk; I'll just tip them less if I'm unhappy with their service." It's not even a real question.
That answer linked above is the only right answer.
Upboated.
Also, the can vs. could thing has been addressed a hundred times probably, and this question should be closed as a duplicate as well.
 

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