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Anonymous
00:01
@DamkerngT. See, on meta.Japanese, Andrew Grimm argues that the cause of comment-answers is people not being supportive enough (= downvoting and saying that answers are incorrect)
Anonymous
People are afraid of being downvoted and people pointing out errors, and so they write answers in comments. This is actually true, and some comment answerers on Japanese.SE have said so.
Anonymous
But, well . . . in general, I think they should try to write better answers, but there's no real politic way to say that
Anonymous
People have other reasons for writing comment answers, of course.
Anonymous
But the community often flags these comments, links to the meta discussion, and so on . . .
Anonymous
00:03
ELL.SE inherited its attitude toward comment answers from English.SE
Anonymous
When ELL was established, many English.SE users felt that it should be run in precisely the same way, unfortunately
Anonymous
It's only natural, since so many of the users were the same as on English.SE.
@snailboat Sometimes things just need to be said.
I mean, if you're a moderator on a site... maybe someone else should say it, but still.
Anonymous
@jimsug Users can and do rage quit when people say things like that. Sometimes, as much as I hate to say this, the site is better off when they do.
... you're making very good arguments for it ;)
"Write good answers" shouldn't be something that people ragequit over, and if they do... as you say, the site is better off.
It's kind of amazing how attached people get to imaginary internet points.
Anonymous
00:05
In general, I've tried to advocate criticism in a healthy way, with a neutral tone.
Anonymous
One unfortunate thing is that users don't all get the same tone from a written message.
Anonymous
Some messages seem perfectly neutral to me, but other people view them as rude.
Anonymous
I think in some sense, telling people that they're wrong is viewed as rude by many people no matter how you do it.
I don't think you need to tell people that they are wrong.
Just say "you need to be more right" ;)
Anonymous
The best thing to do, I think, is to neutrally point out facts.
00:07
yeah.
Anonymous
Definitely one of the worst things to do is to talk about the author of the post.
Oh, when giving feedback always comment on the behaviours and not the person doing them.
Anonymous
Maybe I should try to come up with a meta post with guidelines for how to write neutral comments.
Your comment used abusive language vs You're a dick
pardon the French.
Anonymous
I've been gradually getting better at it as I use SE more.
Anonymous
00:09
I'm not really what you'd call a people person myself, so people skills are something I have to actively work on ;-)
Anonymous
That's one reason I think J.R. does a good job as a moderator. He actually has those mythical people skills so many people try to develop.
In any case, things could get worse quickly if they took objective comments personally.
Yeah, this is true.
Anonymous
Even though there've been times when I disagreed with actual decisions he's made, he does a really good job keeping things positive and keeping the community running.
Anonymous
@DamkerngT. Which totally happens.
00:11
@snailboat I think he plays the mod card very well, too.
(As far as I can tell)
oh look, I finally got the enthusiast badge on MSE
Nice! Congrats!
87 days, 30 consecutive :\
Anonymous
I've never gotten enthusiast on ELL.
Anonymous
That's on purpose. I want more gold badges on Japanese.SE than on ELL. :-)
00:15
You mean Fanatic?
That's the only gold badge I have on ELL
Anonymous
Oh! Yes, I mean Fanatic.
Anonymous
Which one is Enthusiast?
Silver, 30 days
Anonymous
Oh! 30 days.
Also, it's kinda crazy that only one person has a gold tag badge on ELL
it's StoneyB, so it's not surprising who it is, but still.
@snailboat consecutive days, mind.
Anonymous
00:16
@jimsug Most beta sites don't have gold tag badges at all.
Anonymous
Japanese.SE recently got its first, though!
Anonymous
Because like on ELL, we tag every question grammar ;-)
Yeah, I've been paying more attention since they added the dupehammer on gold tag badge holders.
Anonymous
I'm exaggerating when I say every, of course, but having a tag like grammar on ELL is really not the norm across sites, as I understand it.
It's very close to an intrinsic tag.
00:19
Oh, talking about tags. Do we still have ?
Anonymous
Nope.
Anonymous
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A: Can we please remove the tag 'word'?

snailboatTag word is no more. It looks like a moderator turned word into a synonym of word-usage. So this time around it wasn't burninated, but it's gone forever nonetheless. Thank you, J.R. or WendiKidd! :-)

Anonymous
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A: Answering: correctness vs. practicality

CatijaIt is best practice to find a dictionary definition that supports your use of the word regardless of your native language. This helps support your answer and helps the asker feel confident in it. As a fellow native speaker, I've found this can be difficult but not impossible. You may not find a ...

Anonymous
@Catija Awesome and awful! ;-)
Anonymous
00:21
They both started out with pretty much the same meaning, but today they're used like antonyms.
@snailboat Almost 1500 questions tagged with !
@snailboat Oh, no! Not this pair! :-)
Anonymous
> Working forward from 1200 to 1600, a certain word went through something like the following sequence of meanings (as given in the OED): "Happy, blissful; fortunate, lucky, well-omened, auspicious"; "Spiritually blessed, enjoying the blessing of God"; "Pious, holy, good"; "Innocent, harmless"; "Deserving of pity or sympathy; pitiable, miserable, ‘poor’; helpless, defenceless"; "Insignificant, trifling; mean, poor; feeble"; "Frail, worn-out, crazy"; "Foolish, simple, silly".
Anonymous
Can you guess what word that is?
@snailboat Very true :D
@snailboat Ooooh, tell me.
Anonymous
Silly!
00:26
Hah!
Anonymous
I stole that paragraph from Language Log: languagelog.ldc.upenn.edu/nll/?p=453
I was guessing 'goofy'. :P
@snailboat Wow, that gives an entirely new meaning to some of the Empire literature that I'm sure it's included in... Doesn't someone call Elizabeth's younger sisters "silly" at some point in Pride and Prejudice?
Anonymous
Oh, I can't say that I remember . . .
William Grant White wouldn't have had to fight against dirt if he had tried vegetables in China. :P
00:35
> "They have none of them much to recommend them," replied he; "they are all silly and ignorant like other girls; but Lizzy has something more of quickness than her sisters."
~Mr. Bennet, about his own daughters.
But, that's the early 1800s, so I guess it has the same meaning then as it does now?
Nice!
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A: rock-zapping -- meaning?

TBridges42I'm not sure why the comments above are not answers, because they are valid. "Zap" is an onomatopoeia for the sound that high voltage electricity makes when it ionizes air. As such it's been used in science fiction since at least the 1940s to represent the sound of laser based weaponry. It is us...

The "rock-zapping ChemCam laser" refers to the laser fired by Curiousity's rock-vaporizing laser gun. From Zap! Laser Sparks Fly on Mars in Curiosity Rover Video: NASA's Curiosity rover on Mars has set off some fireworks on the Red Planet with the zap-zap-zap of its high-tech space laser.Damkerng T. 9 hours ago
@DamkerngT. I don't think that deserves a VTC.
Oh! -- I think I didn't VTC, but VTC is reasonable for me.
I don't know who did, it was just in the close queue.
BTW, I'm an expert at writing answer-comments as non-answer-comments. :P
I still don't know why the OP don't know what "rock-zapping" means.
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Q: Breaking parachute

Cookie MonsterExample with context (news story Russian bomber crashes in Pacific region, both pilots killed): The two crew members were unhurt in the accident, which the Defense Ministry said at the time was caused by a failure of the plane's breaking parachute. What is that exactly? Does that mean that ...

Judging from the above question, I think he know how -ing can turn a verb into an adjective-like word.
00:48
@DamkerngT. It's not always apparent. Not all languages allow onomatopoeia to be made into an adjective.
@jimsug But zap the verb is easy to find in dictionaries, I think.
Also, context clues for Curiousity's ChemCam are abundant, I'd say.
(There are lots of articles, news, etc. showing how it works or looks like.)
This left one possibility, IMHO: the OP wasn't sure about the X-Ying pattern. But that would be quite a surprise for me.
Anonymous
01:07
@Catija Okay, I wrote an answer because you made me :-)
Anonymous
@DamkerngT. . . . zappingly! ;-)
Anonymous
Oh my god, the green thingy went away. I clicked it???
Anonymous
T_T
@snailboat Are you accumulating reputation?
@snailboat Aww...
Anonymous
01:09
@jimsug Well, it was almost to 8000 . . .
Anonymous
I don't know what happened.
Anonymous
Now I'm sad.
HA HA HA. Did you see Nicael's rep? S/he had the same thing but had a 5 digit number.
Anonymous
Oh! :-)
Anonymous
That's funny.
Anonymous
01:15
I could swear I didn't click on the green thingy.
Anonymous
I've clicked on it a bunch of times now though :-)
Sorry :(
Anonymous
Oh, I'm not really that sad about it.
Anonymous
It was just a green thingy.
I like green thingies.
Anonymous
01:18
I do too. It's so fun clicking on them. I don't know how I managed to quit my green thingy clicking habit for a full day.
In your "is this just spelling" section, you might consider including a version without an article? *I have three other books." Maybe? I'm not certain.
Step 1 - delete all network profiles possible
Step 2 - create profile on EVERY SE site.
Step 3 - ???
@jimsug Glory in the green thingy.
Anonymous
Well, if it needs more editing, I'll have to do it later :-)
Anonymous
Sheesh, that answer turned out a lot longer than I intended . . .
Anonymous
01:21
By the way, I'm using ellipses all the time because of how fun it is to use the ellipsis I added to my input method.
Anonymous
It has Non-Breaking Thin Spaces™!
I did a personality quiz one time... it was "What kind of punctuation mark are you"... I got "ellipsis".
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Anonymous
' . . . '   ← Now 100% more Non-Breaking, with 50% extra Thinness!
' . . . ' ← Look how less shiny this regular brand ellipsis is!
Anonymous
Typing  . . .  is so fun :-)
Anonymous
01:24
@Catija I think that's one of the best punctuation marks out there.
It's a very nice ellipsis. :D
I am a colon: I can elaborate on ideas.
Nice. I should take that one and see what I get.
> You can't stand it when people are:

**Close minded**
I'm so bugged by this.
I need to put the "d" in there.
I just... can't
I would have chosen that but didn't.
01:28
Really?
Apparently I get along well with the semi-colon.
@jimsug I'm a Colon too!
> (But they're not always up for the intense inquisitions that you love!)
LOL :-)
Oh, the page didn't refresh automatically.
That was for Question Marks.
> (But they are a little sick of you being right all of the time!)
LOL!
Anonymous
Sometimes I feel like an exclamation point!
> You are a bundle of... well, something.
! :-)
Anonymous
I've spent quite a while trying to train myself to write periods instead of exclamation points :-)
Anonymous
But I think one of my most frequently used punctuation marks is the smiley face!
01:40
Oh, there is no parenthesis on the list.
Anonymous
That is, most unusually frequent.
Anonymous
I seem to use more smileys than everyone I know :-)
Anonymous
I've spent years trying to kick the habit, but I just can't do it!
Anonymous
I don't use nearly as many exclamation points as I used to. That's progress, right?
Punctuation marks are like snow to me.
Anonymous
01:41
@DamkerngT. (Oh! I use parentheses a lot, too . . . )
Anonymous
Heck, I'm just an all around overpunctuator.
Anonymous
I put commas where they don't go―and I put em-dashes all over the place!
@snailboat That, I think, is a matter of ... opinion.
@snailboat Are you aware of Terry Pratchett's opinion on the overuse of exclamation points?
Anonymous
@Catija Oh, I miss Terry Pratchett!
01:42
@snailboat :( Yeah.
Anonymous
He did something I really loved―nesting footnotes inside footnotes!
Anonymous
@NathanTuggy Yay, an ellipsis!
Anonymous
> That! Is!! Not!!! My!!!! COW!!!!!
@snailboat Had I been slightly more with it I would have used the actual ellipsis character … like that.
Anonymous
@NathanTuggy Oh, I use … all the time! I've long been in the habit because of Japanese.
Anonymous
01:44
Though in Japanese, it tends to appear like this: …… ← six dots
> 'Multiple exclamation marks,' he went on, shaking his head, 'are a sure sign of a diseased mind.
Anonymous
> どうやらふたりのあいだで、なにかいさかいがあったようだが……。
@snailboat I have a friend who's been in Japan for years and a lot of FB statuses end up with hollow periods.
I wish we used the hollow periods. They're so much cuter.
Anonymous
01:45
Yeah! They're sort of copied from Western punctuation, but they've got their own distinct style.
Anonymous
See how the comma is different, too?
Anonymous
Although some Japanese publications actually do use a Western-style comma.
@snailboat Is the comma the little backwards straight slanty thing in about the middle?
I.e., "、"?
@NathanTuggy Yeah, it looks like a tick mark but lower `
Anonymous
Yep! Like Catija says :-)
01:47
@Catija I didn't know that。
I don't speak Japanese but I took it for two years. I can read what snail posted but I've no clue what it means.
Anonymous
They're called dōten and kuten in Japanese. They can be considered close relatives of the comma and period.
Anonymous
It means "It seemed somehow that the two of them had had some sort of falling out . . . "
Anonymous
Here's an example of Western-style commas in Japanese text:
Anonymous
Anonymous
01:49
But Japanese-style periods (kuten).
Unrelatedly, I was curious how often various of us check 2k tools for possible deletions
and what strategies are common in picking new questions/answers to VtD
Anonymous
Very rarely.
Anonymous
In fact, I've never done it before.
@NathanTuggy VtD?
@Catija Vote to Delete
@snailboat Really? Huh
Anonymous
01:53
@NathanTuggy Well, I've done it on other SE sites.
Anonymous
I'm not really in the habit of clicking on those tools.
@NathanTuggy Is that different than VtC? I don't ever see VtD when I go to the review tools.
Anonymous
Click on the tools tab, then click on delete
01:55
I have never done that... I didn't even know it was there.
Anonymous
Yeah, it's kind of hidden.
@Catija Yup, it's very ego-boosting at times
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Q: Could I have some questions about TOFEL?

Sirinat Paphatsirinatthi ___ touching in O. Henry's stories is the gallantry with which ordinary people struggle to maintain their dignity. A. Most is B. It mostly is C. Is it most D. What is most I'm confused why the solution is D __ substances include various forms of silic...

What does this mean "Migration rejected"?
Is it because it got voted to close after being migrated?
... OK, I guess it's a sign of my personality that I've already set up a 1/day schedule to open /tools :P
@Catija Yes.
We threw it back.
(It will get auto-deleted, on both sites, in a little while.)
Anonymous
01:58
@Catija Yeah. The process is complicated and broken.
Anonymous
When a question is migrated from site A to site B, it's locked on site A.
Anonymous
That means no can change it at all.
Anonymous
The goal there is to keep there from being more than one active copy of the question at any time.
There's a bunch of ideas for fixing migrations and it looks like Shog wants to kill them, mostly, so maybe things will be better in some sense soon?
There's actually a good Meta.SE topic about adding the ability for a site to accept a migration before it getting migrated. I would really like that.
Anonymous
01:58
When site B closes the question for any reason, even if it's for "More details, please!",
Anonymous
The question is permanently locked on site B, all answers are deleted, and the question is unlocked on Site A.
Is it just me, or the reasons that we voted to close that question are strange?
Anonymous
That way there's only one copy in play at a time and everything gets auto-deleted eventually.
Anonymous
Makes sense, right?
Anonymous
But that's not how it actually works.
Anonymous
01:59
In fact, it stays locked on Site A.
Anonymous
It never gets deleted on Site A. No one can vote to delete it.
Anonymous
Notice how edit is greyed out.
@DamkerngT. Hmmmm... yeah, it should have gotten a custom close reason, honestly.
@DamkerngT. Yeah. Too broad would have been better.
Anonymous
02:00
Try voting. You can't.
Anonymous
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Q: Rejected migrations (deleted from the original site) are incorrectly locked

snailboatWhen a migrated question is rejected, the destination copy is locked to prevent two copies of the same question being in play at the same time. This is a good thing. Locking is a tool, and this is one possible reason to use it. However, in many cases the question is deleted from the original s...

@DamkerngT., how often do you check 2k tools? I'm doing a poll ;)
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Q: Create an Accept Migration voting mechanism for migrated questions

squillmantl;dr - Let the target site vote on whether or not to accept a migrated question into its community in order to help enforce the Don't Migrate Crap idea. Even with limited migration paths, quite often (that is, far too often) a question gets migrated to a site when it really should have just b...

Um.. Never. (Now I feel a little guilty. :P)
@snailboat That's bizarre.
Anonymous
02:01
The whole "lock" thing is kind of a hack that doesn't really work. Check out the above meta post.
@DamkerngT. GUILT! GUILT ALL THE 2KERS!
Anonymous
I programmatically compiled a list of erroneously locked posts.
Anonymous
I haven't done that in a while, but I'm betting we could find some if we looked ;-)
Anonymous
Anyway, it's been broken for years.
Anonymous
02:02
It's a little confusing. I hope I said it all correctly. I might not have.
Anonymous
It'd be nice if they fixed the migration system.
@snailboat I got the essentials but I think I was confused about where the locked copy ended up until reading the meta post.
Anonymous
The meta post is about a slightly different migration problem.
Anonymous
In this case, site A migrates to site B.
Seems the easiest way is to go to this page and look for anything marked as "on hold" or "closed"?
Anonymous
02:04
Site A deletes their copy of the post immediately (as that's what the ELU moderators tend to do when migrating to ELL), and . . .
Anonymous
Site B rejects it and ends up with a locked copy forever.
Anonymous
Oh, well, you wouldn't want to look for stuff by hand.
Anonymous
That smacks of effort.
@snailboat Particularly when you only have one mod...
Anonymous
Effort is for stuff like this: meta.ell.stackexchange.com/a/2536/230 - Thanks, @NathanTuggy :-)
02:05
@snailboat :)
Anonymous
@Catija Look! A wild had went! ell.stackexchange.com/posts/52685/revisions
Anonymous
I think being sick is driving me crazy. I have way too much energy :-)
Anonymous
Isn't it supposed to work the other way?
Anonymous
So I end up talking and talking and talking, like this. But I'm going to go take a break so I don't break the chat :-)
@snailboat HA HA HA.
@snailboat Awww, I didn't know you were sick. :(
So... @NathanTuggy What's the purpose of delete voting vs leaving closed?
02:10
@Catija Well, I'm hardly an expert, since I only just got 2k tools for the first time, but as I understand it from assorted metas, it's basically to throw away stuff that is now, and will always be, thoroughly unsalvageable
… and that the roomba won't delete on its own
Hmmm. Interesting.
most dupes don't need deleting
and a lot of too broad or unclear don't either
What's the "2K tools" rep requirement on non-Beta sites?
although if a question lingers after its owner is long gone, that's probably fine to blow away
@Catija 10k
Ah. So I still have a way to go if I want to keep them if/when the site gets graduated.
02:12
Yes. Lil bit.
2K seems really low... to be honest. I know Beta number have to be low to be attainable but that's really low.
It's one of the lowest relative to full sites, although proportionally CV at 500 is even lower
Most of the high-end privileges are 1/4 rep, dropping to 1/2 rep at edits and (nearly) full rep when you get further down
I think the idea is that you really do need people early on who can, if needed, reverse the roomba
or augment it
 
4 hours later…
05:59
Mods can still see deleted comments, right?
Anonymous
Yes
06:20
As someone with deleted comments, it would be nice if I could still see them :P
06:32
@Catija Hi!
@snailboat Hi!
 
1 hour later…
07:57
@snailboat I thought you might find this amusing:
 
5 hours later…
user116848
12:43
Hell - o!
user116848
Whoa, I got -10 on ELL because a user was removed.
user116848
Shucks!
user116848
My precious 10 points.
user116848
Nooo!
user116848
I once got +2 because a user was removed.
13:30
Hi!
A use was removed?
*user, my mistake.
Anonymous
In exceptional cases, when a high rep user with lots of votes deletes their account, SE staff sometimes transfer their votes to Community before deleting the account.
Anonymous
Otherwise, the votes vanish with the account. I lost 10 rep too.
13:51
@snailboat Aw :(
14:49
This is cool.
 
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17:00
-3
Q: the quickest way to pickup a girl

ProJaCorehow i wrote... what was the fastest and quickest way how you pickup a girl, what for methods was useful for you or what can you recommend?.. its rlly hard to pickup some other girls so what would you recommend in this case ? and what not? and what for a experience have you guys already in this ...

Uh...
This Q scares me.
Are there really any methods? People aren't tools or appliances with manuals and instructions.
When lifting remember to bend with the legs. — Nigel Ellis Jul 27 at 7:46
HA HA HA HA
sudo apt-get install girlfriend
PUAs are a blot on society and should be run out of civilized dialogue.
Hah!
Too true.
Each person is different, and why is the Q directed at women?
@HarryCBurn Cool!
17:02
Surely it'd be better to have it in general.
That one guy has been banned from lecturing in 5-6 countries now.
@Catija Wait, really?!
@HarryCBurn Because PUA's don't see women as people.
> Australians were outraged after discovering Blanc, a so-called “date coach”, was holding seminars to teach men how to “pick up” women using physical force and emotional abuse.
> “I’ve seen Julien Blanc’s work,” he said. “To me most of it appears to be deeply disturbing and offensive. Labelling women as objects and actively promoting the abuse of women degrades the dignity of our whole community.
Julien Blanc (born October 24, 1988) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based dating coach and pickup artist. He is an executive coach for the Los Angeles-based company Real Social Dynamics. According to an article published by Time, he describes himself as an "international leader in dating advice". In November 2014, Blanc became the subject of multiple social media campaigns alleging that his dating advice encourages sexual violence and abuse, and involving multiple petitions on those grounds to deny him entry to several nations. On November 17, Blanc made an appearance on CNN rebutting these accusations...
> Blanc has formally been banned from entry to Australia, the United Kingdom and Singapore. The Time magazine described him as "the most hated man in the world" as a result of these campaigns
17:05
Oh wow.
Maybe not the most hated, but up there.
(I don't suppose anyone runs Linux?)
@HarryCBurn Thousands of people do :)
(Anyone here ;))
Mac OS X is pretty much like Linux. :D
Sorry. I use Mac OSX.
Ubuntu is a Linux distro.
17:07
A lot of Macs run Linux... I think that's what my husband uses at work but I'm not sure.
I think your Raspi media center is running Linux too. ;-)
@DamkerngT. I turned back to UbuntuMATE, but yeah. I'm trying to get my WLAN card to work.
Everything seems to go wrong for me :(
Oh, that was a long time for me.
@HarryCBurn Is it a laptop or a desktop PC?
Wait, what was a long time? :o
@DamkerngT. RPi.
It's a USB card.
@HarryCBurn A long time since I had to set WLAN under the hood manually.
17:10
Ah.
inɒzɘmɒЯ.A.M joined 4 users in this room
The issue if that the USB device is unclaimed by drivers.
Hey!
I've tried my Raspberry Pi model B running the media center. I remember that one WLAN dongle worked and the other didn't.
That was back in January, so I'm not sure how many drivers they've added to the installation.
17:13
Sorry for the delay. My browser just crashed again.
What kind of not working was it?
No problem.
Is it IE? ;)
Internet Explorer.
@HarryCBurn Oh, it's Firefox. But I've got 1992 tabs on this window.
with 34 more windows.
o.o
Any reason why?
17:15
I guess the animation of @inɒzɘmɒЯ.A.M's avatar coming in the room was the last straw. :P
@DamkerngT. And here I though I was bad with my 11 tabs and 5 other windows with between 3-10 tabs each.
@HarryCBurn It's just my habit. I leave something I always use (like some work stuff, feeds, ELL, etc.) open. And for some other "unfinished-business" (before I journal about it, or move it into a bookmark) I just leave them open.
@Catija I think I'm quite unique in this respect. :P
@inɒzɘmɒЯ.A.M o/
At the moment, my FF occupies about 1.91 GB of RAM. Once it reaches 2.1-2.2 GB or beyond, it will start to become unstable.
Then close it dammit!
17:20
:P
17:42
@Dam king I found an interesting sentence in chat FAQ:
> If your chat messages are repeatedly being flagged by your peers you might find yourself muted, banned, or – in extreme cases – your The Stack Exchange Network reputation may be negatively affected.
When it's may, it means may or may not. It's unclear what will cause it, but I think everyone would be able to guess.
And it's now official that it's The Stack Exchange Network.
And it's reputation!
(^The first one is not a surprise for me, but the second is!)
Wait, I think reputation there is normal.
It's not like that sentence we found a couple days ago.
Jul 27 at 16:42, by Damkerng T.
Okay, I got the same error: Users must have at least 20 reputation to talk.

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