@quid I understand. Really. Now I have another concern: a meta post about a matter that only moderators can handle:
math.meta.stackexchange.com/questions/32546/…. I've offered understanding and compassion to the user, and suggested the posts of concern need to be flagged for mod attention (ideally in a few posts, each with multiple links). I simply mention it here in case mods see this first, prior to visiting meta.