I noticed that the answer had been downvoted, upvoted, and left a comment explaining why. That comment was insta-deleted. I often see "when downvoting, leave a comment". I believe in this instance, because the answer is bound to be unpopular. it's worth leaving a comment as to why I upvoted. To reiterate my earlier comment: I don't agree with the first half of the answer about the #metoo movement. The second half of the answer on trying to resolve this problem via discussion and listening is correct. —
DaveG 1 min ago