SELECT *
INTO #foo
FROM (VALUES
(1, 2, 50),
(2, NULL, 1.5)
) AS t(Id, OtherId, Qty);
SELECT
f1.Id,
f1.OtherId,
SUM(f1.Qty + f2.Qty) OVER (PARTITION BY COALESCE(f1.OtherId, f1.Id)) AS CombinedQty,
f1.Qty AS Qty1,
f2.Qty AS Qty2
FROM #foo AS f1
LEFT JOIN #foo AS f2
ON f1.OtherId = f2.Id;
DROP TABLE #foo;