there's nothing wrong in minmaxing. I'm just saying that if you minmax the wrong way (there's an art to minmaxing - some, like you, is trying to maximize starting points and some, like me, is just trying to spend them all in order to get the highest value in some aspect of the character no matter the cost) you can very easily end up with something ugly that then gets associated to the concept of minmaxing.
People don't hate powergamers, they hate people who ruin their character and the general experience in order to powergame. People hate spotlight hoggers, and since powergaming is an easy …