I went questing with some people and we were faced with a monster we must not kill.
We need to convince him giving us a trinket he owns. So we talk to this elemental lord and the party diplomat rolls High, and I help by rolling high, but I say things taht the NPC does not like and I stay silent and let the diplomat go and take the prize. It's like it's estabilished she's our boss and I can't drive myself to do things in her stead because she would get angry if I did and I don't want to, but that means I could stay home and it'd be the same