I just fundamentally disagree. In a fantasy world, things are only as true as people understand them to be. Nothing invalidates anything unless your table or GM decides for it to be invalidated.
When you say that one is chaotic and decentralized, my initial reaction is "You just don't understand the order and structure" When you say that something exists because it was made, while in the other it exists because things exist in it, my reaction is that you* just aren't fully aware of the creation process. *"You" can even refer to the creators of the realms.