How you know your gamer dead meat:
1) Your players are getting themselves shot, because they realised there was morphine in the med kits, because you used them to much.
2) Your in a war , but your players act like they are in SIMS3 at the beach
3) you have the best armour , but the bad guys shoot right through it
4) You just paid $40,000 and it took 5 days to make that weapon, 5 minutes after disembarkation, the player drops it and runs away.