@fredsbend And about that "looking at a woman lustfully" thing, Christianity in general has lightened and cheapened Jesus' words to the point where they think that if you have a sexual fantasy about someone, you've broken the commandment against adultery.
This sort of thinking results from a sloppy, superficial reading of the Greek text, where the word for "lust" is equivalent to the word for "covet" in the 10 Commandments, and it means a burning desire and intention to actually act upon one's adulterous thoughts.
The reason coveting and lust are prohibited in both the OT and the NT is that these are the desires that lead us to actually break the various commandments. It's not just about seeing a pretty woman and thinking, "Oooh! She's hot!"
If a man looks at a woman and fantasizes getting in bed with her, that is not "lusting after her" as Jesus uses the term. It is only "lusting after her" if, given the opportunity, or having an opportunity to make the opportunity, he actually would get into bed with her.
Men fantasize about women all the time with no particular intention of actually having sex with them. That is not "lust" or "coveting" as those terms are used in the Bible.
And women fantasize about men, too, btw.
These are just normal human sex drives in action in the human mind. They are not "lusting," and they are not breaking the commandment against adultery.
@fredsbend But if you wish someone well, you will act on it if you have the opportunity. When it comes to enemies, simply not attacking them, but leaving them to live their lives in peace even if you don't like them, is a form of love.
@fredsbend I rest my case. You are stuck in a literal interpretation of the Bible, and that is both why you don't understand the Bible and, I think, why you have left behind your former religion, which, from what I've been able to tell, was very literalistic and very OT in flavor.
You have too much intelligence and analytical ability for a literal understanding of the Bible to work for you.
But since you reject any other possible view, you're pretty much stuck in agnosticism.
Until that old literalism finally wears off--which I hope it will one day.
@fredsbend And I should add that it was only within the past few centuries that the bulk of Christian theologians started thinking that there isn't any deeper meaning in the Bible. Throughout the first 1,000 to 1,500 years of Christianity, most Christian exegetes saw the Bible as having multiple layers of meaning. They even developed a system of levels of meaning in the Bible. And they wrote extensively about the Bible's meaning on that basis.
Even Luther's sola fide didn't deny the Bible having deeper meanings. But Protestantism gradually rejected any spiritual meaning in the Bible, and became more and more literalistic. This is completely out of step with the whole sweep of previous Christian biblical exegesis.