btw, I tried out an idea and I liked it a lot.
in 5e, inspiration exists. I was giving one out at the start of every game, and then another if you brought stuff (usually candy or beer). The problem was that I felt like players were hoarding them and not using them on others.
So, I posed to the group: How about instead of the one free one at the start, I give you two free ones, except you can only use them on someone else.
Achieved exactly what I wanted.