@Adam, you come off very "me-focused", but that's how everyone comes off when they're venting something they're angry about. I can't tell if you're venting or if that's representative of something your coach saw too. For now, I'm *logging* it as too ambiguous for me to responsibly draw conclusions from.
And really, "too me-focused" is often a very relative determination, so I'd probably only really be able to diagnose something like that responsibly if I watched you interact with your team.