The DM doesn't need an eloquent personality. He needs to be aware of the group and as a leader and controller of the game he needs to be able to put his foot down if someone does try to overdo it.
If the personality is not suited to that, he should get help from the other players.
In this particular instance, I think everyone at the table would have had the same reaction.
Even other people in the room (we were playing in a comics and gaming shop) had a bit of a "you must be new here" reaction to the player (and yes, he was new to this)
In the end, there was much laughter at his expense because he wouldn't listen to the friendly advice of his comrades and let the party ALL THE CHARISMA Sorcerer talk to the guards.
(The DM would have allowed the Sorcerer to RP it no problem, because he had the character sheet to reflect it. Usually he did our negotiations, and he rarely needed to roll for something and most of those rolls were to find out if he knew what he was talking about or was bluffing lol
I hold by the tried and true: If you plan to RP something, make sure your character sheet reflects it. If you plan to be good at something, make sure your character sheet reflects it. If you can't RP something you want to do, let the dice do it for you.
Often, even if I suck at something my character's good at, I RP it as best I can and still roll. This has granted me a few bonuses that saved my ass in the past. Even when attempting some unusual physical stunt, I describe it and roll. If, by way of the RoC or by way of the die roll I succeed, sometimes I know which it was sometimes I don't. Either way, I am a storyteller first and a gamer second.
I like D&D, because it epitomizes the styles of stories I like to play and tell. Other systems are fine and dandy, and I've yet to find myself playing in a medieval fantasy system other than D&D (mostly because of the lack of groups to play with) but until I find something that literally does it all, D&D is still my go-to game.
mrf. keep letting myself get distracted... not good.....
Need to write up bloody lance stats... screwit, i'm not making one with class levels
too complicated since the bloody GM won't respond.