Also I figure I'll address this before someone asks: No I haven't had a message starred 10 times in chat, and the reason for that is that I'm hardly active in chat:
1) I tend not to spend too much time idling on the site. I'll spend some time, read some posts, edit some things, respond to notifications etc etc, and close tab.
2) I'll only join chat for matters of large discussions and/or if I'm @ pinged.
3) I'm not really here for the idle banter. You are all great don't get me wrong, and it's not like I actively try to *avoid* chat , it's just not really my thing :).