11:16 PM
Okay.. my thing.. I've been (hopefully) noticeably more absent around here. And this is why. I DO NOT like the drama. I get stirred up and after reacting a bit, I realize it's best to just leave. So I do. I am not perfect. Yes I can post reactionary things. I do not deny that. But I'd also express that they are reactionary. Not catalysts.
There's a difference there. I've been politiely ignoring the issue for a few weeks now. No big deal. Then that multi-photo answer comment I left stirred up insulting and rude comments.. so.. well. I was hot. I was letting it go though. I then read the conversation which took place with @DA. and saw that all the same excuses and accusations were hurled at me, were also hurled at DA . That is unfounded.
So yeah.. I take offense when ONE user is stirring the pot with MANY long-standing users. I don't like being made to feel I'm in teh wrong or somehow "victimizing" someone who, in reality is actually victimizing others. I'm not one to be abused and just "take it" and to repeatedly read the "oh, I'm being bullied" and "I just don't understand your language" comments is frankly pathetic.
And this includes what I'm sure took place in that private chat room where go-meek claimed it "was all stupid" and she "just wanted to go write a blog". Again... playing the victim while BEING a problem.
There is no language barrier. Face it, no one knew there may be another language at play until she said so. That to me.. isnt' a language problem if everyone thinks English is your native language.
I don't harbor any ill-will towards anyone. I don't "hate" at all in life. That's not me. But I am strong-willed, and I do have a backbone. I don't like being stepped on so when someone does, I point it out.
I feel I've been flogged for pointing it out and in some minor way, she's been if not rewarded, coddled and allowed to perpetuate the belief that "everyone here is an egomaniac" when SHE is the largest troublesome ego I've seen on this site. I'm over her. In my opinion her behavior is very troll-like. Stomping around and whenever ANYONE points out a discrepancy they are insulted... Then she runs off and claims she's the victim.
In reality one user matters very little. So I've been fine just letting it go. What is REALLY troubling to me is how moderators have allowed her to perpetuate this "victim" attitude and scolded me. At least that's how I've perceived things. If I'm wrong in that, I'll accept it. But from where i sit... you all can't do enough for go-meek and you all come to her aide as soon as anyone else has an issue with her...
and please.... name me other users on this site with the same issues??? I've not seen any since Confused which we all agreed was just a trouble maker. If 2,3 or 5 long-standing members are all running into the same problem with ONE new users.... it seems unfounded to THREATEN suspension for everyone.
I'm willing to accept it's just a personality thing. And I will make more of an effort to just ignore that personality. However, mods need to be aware and attentive to times when that personality is stirring the pot then claiming to be "bullied".
Face it though... if we were all egomaniacs here we'd all be having problems with each other regularly. So again.... which ego is the issue????