I found this interesting, other parents might too:
"Parenting Kiddos who Sabotage Big Days"
http://jenhatmaker.com/blog/2014/12/15/parenting-kiddos-who-sabotage-big-days
"Parenting Kiddos who Sabotage Big Days"
http://jenhatmaker.com/blog/2014/12/15/parenting-kiddos-who-sabotage-big-days