@TedShifrin The other example that's confusing me is the following.
We are given a list of properties of metric spaces, and for each one, we have to decide whether or not it is a topological property. One of them is:
$\forall x \in M \exists y \in M$ such that $d(x,y)=-1$. Our lecturer says that this is a topological property. But by the definition of a metric space, don't we have to have $d(x,y)\geq 0$?