Thanks for the response. I'm best off putting that whole discussion behind me, feelings vs money is often a no-win argument. The 401(k) - I worked for a large company as well. It's a percent. For whatever reason, that's just how it is. In our case, there was a match on first 5% of salary, so we'd start the year at a high percent, track it, and then drop back to 5% so the rest of the year would hit the limit.
If we simply said hold 25%, we could have hit the limit sooner, and the 5% match would get reconciled in February of the next year.