So, a final summary of the lessons learned today:
1) I need to be careful about what I write. At times, I may fail to realize that what I write is not constructive or is rude or offensive.
2) I need to not feed trolls. Acknowledging the troll in any way, even indirectly, will make the problem worse.
3) I need to learn to let go, not dig up past incidents or discuss them longer than necessary.
4) When handling people problems, I need to make sure that what I do effectively solves the problem in the least drastic manner possible without escalating the issue. Sometimes, that means doing nothin…