Munkres defines order relation as something which is non-reflexive (along with other properties) and provides the name "simple order" or "linear order" for it. While on $\href{
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Total_order}{wikipedia}$ it is mentioned that "simply/linearly" ordered set terms can be used for "totally ordered" set but their definition of totally ordered set contains reflexivity hence it can not be a "order relation".