If we try to measure gravitational attraction at an instant, from the frame of A, we could get B moving at speed v, so $m_B$ would have a greater mass.
@JohnRennie but surely, we can measure the gravitational force of an object (perhaps by using the time period of an orbit), and compare it for different speeds.
As far as I know, phase is like the "angle of starting" for a wave. Like in a light wave, the phase is what denotes how the wave looks when shifted longitudinally, which depends on the magnitude at wave beginning.