The Frying Pan

Sometimes hot, always heavy. (cooking.stackexchange.com)
yst 09:25
the other was that they never trusted the yeast they buy to work properly, so they operating on a "more is more" principle
yst 09:24
"patience" was one of my grandmothers' reasons to always use a lot of yeast
yst 09:23
but even when comparing normal-rising-speed bread with the too-quickly-risen bread, I like the "undesirable" aroma of the quickly-risen more, just because it's how my grandmas used to bake their bread. So it's the taste of childhood.
yst 09:22
not only that I don't like actual sourdough
yst 09:22
but for me, that's not ideal
yst 09:22
you know, there are all these books about artisan bread talking how you should retard your bread as long as possible, to get the subtle flavors - basically making almost sourdough out of "normal" recipes
yst 09:20
haha
yst 09:18
@JourneymanGeek it depends on how you like your bread. If you don't like the taste of too-fast risen bread, use less yeast. It will rise slowly even in hot weather.
Mon 14:22
@Cerberus that's a selfie from Saturday with the nice dress. Very bad angle, but I think you can see why I say I already have a belly :)
Mon 14:21
Sun 19:13
@Cerberus quite well now, thank you. And you?
Sun 19:12
or are you still a snow white hound?
Sun 19:12
@Cerberus You absolutely were! But also, you were so white-furred! Did you get darker with age?
Sun 18:50
Especially considering how (as you've said so many times) the Dutch people don't care much about superficial politeness.
Sun 18:50
Well, if it had been a terrible experience, I think you would have found a way to wiggle out. So it can't be that bad.
Sun 18:48
@Tinkeringbell hey, that sounds nice. Like a good way to break up the routine, without it being too frequent. So why not spend the money, if you have it anyway and it's a rare treat.
Sun 18:43
how do you do social stuff? Do you have a large loose group of friends, or a few very close ones, or something else?
Sun 18:41
Also, I do expect even more reduction for months after the birth.
Sun 18:41
@Tinkeringbell I don't have a lot, but I actually need more or it than I'm already having, so further reduction is not nice.
Sun 18:40
Also, I'm using the term "graduate student" here, but I actually mean PhD students only, who, in Germany, are my coworkers. Not master students, with whom the connection is very different, like classmates.
Sun 18:39
@Tinkeringbell hey, if you hadn't wanted to go, you could have declined. They would probably stopped inviting you after the first refusals anyway.
Sun 18:38
I'm now looking at a dearth of social interaction though, because most friends will likely travel in August.
Sun 18:37
@Tinkeringbell yes, it was nice.
Sun 18:37
so unlike the later students, I'd had interactions with everybody across the "generations".
Sun 18:36
And because I still live in the same town, I got invited to social events like the yearly group hike, or graduation ceremonies.
Sun 18:35
And I spent a long time associated with that research group, because I only had a job there until 2012, but my first project failed to find any publishable relationships in the data we gathered, so I changed my topic and worked elsewhere while writing a dissertation separately, which took me until 2018.
Sun 18:34
she started the department in 2003, but basically still without grad students, and had the first "generation" with only three who finished around the time I joined in 2009. So I had seen them once or twice already.
Sun 18:33
I also knew pretty much all of them
Sun 18:33
which would also explain why I liked this one, I generally like my fellow co-researchers from that research group
Sun 18:32
I think the degree to which one likes reunions is mostly correlated to the degree to which one liked one's classmates back then.
Sun 18:31
It's pretty much the tenor I hear from other people going on reunions.
Sun 18:31
I asked "how was it" and his answer was "Nobody has changed, except for the grey hair. The shy ones are still shy, the posers are still posers, the dorks are still dorks, and so on."
Sun 18:30
A friend of mine is in his late 60s now, and recently went to a class reunion.
Sun 18:30
@Tinkeringbell They probably didn't.
Sun 18:30
Hmm. Now that I think about it, I don't remember that much of my classmates from 7th grade. Spent only a year with them though.
Sun 18:29
Ah, that's sad, about the teachers.
Sun 18:28
@Tinkeringbell you don't feel like seeing these people again?
Sun 18:28
I don't know, I don't watch that much TV nowadays :)
Sun 18:27
I meant more that there's a certain shape that's almost always a true positive for a baby bump and clearly not fat. But it doesn't work in the other direction - there are many pregnant women, mostly fleshier ones but apparently also skinny ones, who don't get that distinctive shape.
Sun 18:25
@Tinkeringbell yes, there is variation in bump sizes
Sun 18:25
I don't know if they did any reunions though, we went to highschool in Bulgaria, around 90% of us went on to study in Germany, and then many of us also moved to other countries I think.
Sun 18:24
I've never had invitations reach me from my highschool schoolmates, even though I've kept my email from that time, and until recently also my Skype handle from that time, so they could have found me if they wanted
Sun 18:23
Actually this is kind of the first reunion I've had in my life
Sun 18:23
@Tinkeringbell yes, I did. It was very nice, renewing the contacts, and remembering everybody.
Sun 18:23
@Tinkeringbell I think that with thin people, it's easy to tell, because a pregnancy belly covered only by thin skin has a rather distinct shape. When the person has both a baby bump and some fat, it becomes difficult to distinguish.
Sun 18:22
I think that it's because I'm usually very thin - when I straighten up a lot, I used to have a concave belly. And I don't mean "straighten up" in the sense of sucking in my belly with my belly muscles, but reducing my (medically confirmed) lordosis with my back muscles, and stretching a bit upwards instead of slouching. So now part of the bump is filling that concave part instead of protruding.
Sun 18:20
@Tinkeringbell It should be, on average, yes. Currently, each individual baby is quite small, still around 500 g, but they each have their own amniotic sac filled with fluid.
Sun 18:19
They also know me as a thin person, of course. And when I wear a billowing summer dress, to random strangers I look, with my still-smallish bump, more like a stocky person than like a pregnant person.
Sun 18:18
It was also the first time I showed off my bump, wearing a real maternity dress and cinching it with a belt between the bust and belly to make sure it's visible. And this time, people actually noticed the pregnancy :)
Sun 18:17
Yesterday, I was at a social event, my PhD advisor celebrated her retirement and about 80% of her former students showed up. It was a very nice reunion.