what i do notice, though, i find that your tone in writing sometimes comes across *to my ears* as a little aggressive or over-confident, but that doesn't bother me, personally. but it seems that other people are bothered by it. i suspect that you don't mean to sound aggressive or over-confident, but instead you're only trying to share the information you know.
i'm just an outsider, so i cannot say who is "in the right" or not; i merely can see that you and escarlate and others feel disrespected/unwelcomed, and i'm definitely not able to trace its origins or say who is justified and who is …