@JoeObbish that's most unfortunate. perhaps this will make it clearer: what, exactly, about posting something explicit on a site that allows kids as young as 13, is a good idea? (for the record, that question is rhetorical.) mods don't suspend to be jerks. that suspension (don't know who suspended or who flagged) was because we really don't need that kind of stuff in the chat. pure and simple.
hopefully that helps clarify things. in general, i find a good rule of thumb is: if you wouldn't want your mom to be in the room when you're talking about it, then maybe avoid it.
I'd like to make something clear here: Being condescending is absolutely not allowed here. I don't care what you think about the age of other users, being condescending or rude, like what was posted above, is absolutely not allowed.
here's what should have been said: "Your message was deleted because too many community members found it to be explicit. Let me know if I can help clarify what's appropriate for chat."
if you're going to come into a room uninvited and chastise someone, be professional about it
compare my message to the posted one and explain the purpose of all of the extra words
